{"id":4528,"date":"2021-02-13T12:30:26","date_gmt":"2021-02-13T09:30:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wordpress-1316973-5388710.cloudwaysapps.com\/?p=4528"},"modified":"2026-03-25T22:18:33","modified_gmt":"2026-03-25T19:18:33","slug":"pandemide-ask","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/pandemide-ask\/","title":{"rendered":"Pandemide A\u015fk"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Normalle\u015fmeye do\u011fru yol ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z Covid-19 salg\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcreci boyunca, \u015fartlar\u0131n da etkisiyle aile \u00fcyelerimizle daha fazla zaman ge\u00e7irir olduk. Vir\u00fcs, bir yandan bizlere bir\u00e7ok hayat dersi verip en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck anlar\u0131n de\u011ferini \u00f6\u011fretirken di\u011fer yandan ikili ili\u015fkileri de b\u00fcy\u00fck bir s\u0131navdan ge\u00e7iriyor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bo\u015fanmalar, ayr\u0131l\u0131klar ve aile i\u00e7i gerginliklerde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir art\u0131\u015f ya\u015fan\u0131yor.<br>Gelecek h\u00e2l\u00e2 belirsizlikler ile dolu. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te \u00f6ncelikle sa\u011fl\u0131k olmak \u00fczere; i\u015f, e\u011fitim ve para gibi konularda da korkular\u0131m\u0131z ve kayg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z g\u00fcn ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e artt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00fcm bu bilinmezli\u011fin i\u00e7inde kendimize bir \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yolu ar\u0131yoruz. Bu konuda da en b\u00fcy\u00fck destek\u00e7imiz yan\u0131m\u0131zdaki insanlar, aile \u00fcyelerimiz, e\u015fimiz ya da sevgilimiz oluyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ancak i\u00e7inde oldu\u011fumuz stresli zamanlarda birbirimize kar\u015f\u0131 hem daha sald\u0131rgan hem de daha savunmas\u0131z bir hale geldik. Kimi zaman \u00e7aresiz, kimi zaman sevdiklerimizin yan\u0131nda olmam\u0131za ra\u011fmen yaln\u0131z hissediyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-15 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" data-id=\"4530\" src=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/calisan-adam-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"evde bilgisayar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan adam\" class=\"wp-image-4530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/calisan-adam-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/calisan-adam-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/calisan-adam-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/calisan-adam-107x60.jpg 107w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/calisan-adam.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Durumlar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda daha tepkisel ve agresif davranabiliyoruz.<br>Evlerimizde ge\u00e7irdi\u011fimiz zamanla birlikte, ki\u015fisel s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n da darald\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir noktaday\u0131z. T\u00fcm bu olumsuz duygular\u0131 ya\u015farken bir de sosyal izolasyonda olmak, \u00e7ocuklu aileler ve beraber ya\u015fayan \u00e7iftler i\u00e7in \u00e7ok daha zorlay\u0131c\u0131 bir h\u00e2l ald\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kendimize ve ili\u015fkilerimize dair tahamm\u00fcl seviyemizin azald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. Yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lmalar, ileti\u015fim ve \u00f6fke problemleri artarken daha \u00f6nce fark edilmeyen yeni sorunlar da g\u00fcn y\u00fcz\u00fcne \u00e7\u0131kmaya ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ancak burada iki yol var: ya partnerimizle beraber bu sava\u015ftan el ele tutu\u015fup beraber \u00e7\u0131kaca\u011f\u0131z ya da ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bu kriz d\u00f6nemini daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir kaosa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrece\u011fiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Peki bu salg\u0131n s\u00fcrecinde ili\u015fkilerimizi korumak ad\u0131na neler yapabiliriz? Sizin i\u00e7in baz\u0131 \u00f6neriler haz\u0131rlad\u0131k\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_80 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title ez-toc-toggle\" style=\"cursor:pointer\">\u0130\u00e7indekiler<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/pandemide-ask\/#Sorunlarinizi_Cozmek_Icin_Duygularinizi_Ifade_Edin_ve_Empati_Kurun\" >Sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6zmek \u0130\u00e7in Duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u0130fade Edin ve Empati Kurun<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/pandemide-ask\/#Duygularinizi_ve_Davranislarinizi_Gozlemleyerek_Ardindaki_Ihtiyaclari_Arastirin\" >Duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 G\u00f6zlemleyerek Ard\u0131ndaki \u0130htiya\u00e7lar\u0131 Ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131n<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/pandemide-ask\/#Acele_Etmeyin\" >Acele Etmeyin<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/pandemide-ask\/#Bireysel_Sinirlarinizi_Belirleyin\" >Bireysel S\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 Belirleyin<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/pandemide-ask\/#Sorumluluk_Alin\" >Sorumluluk Al\u0131n<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/pandemide-ask\/#Farkindaliklarinizi_Artirin\" >Fark\u0131ndal\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 Art\u0131r\u0131n<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/pandemide-ask\/#Beklemek_Yerine_Yapin\" >Beklemek Yerine Yap\u0131n<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/pandemide-ask\/#Gorev_Dagilimi_Yapin\" >G\u00f6rev Da\u011f\u0131l\u0131m\u0131 Yap\u0131n<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/pandemide-ask\/#Destek_Alin\" >Destek Al\u0131n<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Sorunlarinizi_Cozmek_Icin_Duygularinizi_Ifade_Edin_ve_Empati_Kurun\"><\/span>Sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6zmek \u0130\u00e7in Duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u0130fade Edin ve Empati Kurun<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ev i\u00e7erisinde sorunlara nas\u0131l yakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli. \u00c7iftler aras\u0131nda anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar ya\u015fanmas\u0131n\u0131n normal oldu\u011fu bir d\u00f6nemdeyiz. Ancak burada dikkat etmeniz gereken konu; soruna \u00e7\u00f6zmek i\u00e7in mi yakla\u015f\u0131yorsunuz yoksa hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak i\u00e7in mi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d6ncelikle kendinize ne istedi\u011finizi sorun. Ard\u0131ndan yarg\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 ve su\u00e7lay\u0131c\u0131 bir tutumu kenara b\u0131rakarak partnerinizin nas\u0131l hissetti\u011fini ve neye ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011funu anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ya\u015fanan tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinizi ifade etmek i\u00e7in bir f\u0131rsat olarak g\u00f6rebilirsiniz. E\u011fer sadece kendinizin ya da kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin beklentilerine g\u00f6re ya\u015farsan\u0131z ili\u015fkiniz bir noktada \u00e7\u0131kmaza girecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Genellikle partnerimizin de bizimle an\u0131 \u015feyler hissetti\u011fini varsayma e\u011filimindeyiz. Bu nedenle tart\u0131\u015fma anlar\u0131nda partnerinizin zihnini okumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yerine onunla a\u00e7\u0131k bir ileti\u015fim kurmay\u0131 deneyin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Duygularinizi_ve_Davranislarinizi_Gozlemleyerek_Ardindaki_Ihtiyaclari_Arastirin\"><\/span>Duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 G\u00f6zlemleyerek Ard\u0131ndaki \u0130htiya\u00e7lar\u0131 Ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131n<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-16 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" data-id=\"4532\" src=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/yoga-yapan-kadin.jpg\" alt=\"tek ba\u015f\u0131na oturup yoga yapan bir kad\u0131n\" class=\"wp-image-4532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/yoga-yapan-kadin.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/yoga-yapan-kadin-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/yoga-yapan-kadin-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/yoga-yapan-kadin-107x60.jpg 107w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130li\u015fkinizde ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 nas\u0131l bir \u015fekilde ifade ediyorsunuz? Kendinizi \u00f6fkeli, endi\u015feli ya da incinmi\u015f hissetti\u011finizde nas\u0131l davran\u0131yorsunuz?Partneriniz ya da siz ne kadar s\u0131kl\u0131kla ve hangi durumlarda \u00f6fkeleniyorsunuz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her an patlamaya haz\u0131r saatli bir bomba gibi misiniz? Sebepsiz yere sinirlendi\u011finizi ve abart\u0131l\u0131 tepkiler verdi\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor musunuz? \u00d6fke bir s\u00fcreden sonra hakaret ve \u015fiddete mi d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor? Tart\u0131\u015fma an\u0131nda hangi otomatik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler devreye giriyor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu ve bunun gibi sorular\u0131 kendinize sormak, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z sorunlarla ba\u015f etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken nerede bir engel oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir. \u015eimdiye kadar kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z y\u00f6ntemler ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z sonu\u00e7land\u0131ysa daha farkl\u0131 bir yol izlemenizin zaman\u0131 gelmi\u015f demektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d6fke de her duygu kadar i\u015flevsel ve ola\u011fan bir duygudur. \u00d6fkenizi kontrol edebilmek zor olsa da \u00f6fkelendi\u011finizde sergiledi\u011finiz davran\u0131\u015flar sizin kontrol\u00fcn\u00fcz alt\u0131ndad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d6fkeniz art\u0131k y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 bir h\u00e2l alm\u0131\u015fsa ve kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiye zarar veriyorsa art\u0131k bu normal bir davran\u0131\u015f de\u011fildir ve burada \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmesi gereken bir problem vard\u0131r. Bu konuda kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 do\u011fru bir \u015fekilde \u00e7ekmeyi \u00f6\u011frenmesi gerekmektedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7o\u011fu zaman bir kavga veya tart\u0131\u015fma esnas\u0131nda partnerinizin size ne kadar \u00f6fkelendi\u011fine ya da kurdu\u011fu c\u00fcmlelere odaklan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Ancak burada \u00f6fkenin ger\u00e7ek duygular\u0131 gizleyen bir maske oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d6fkenin alt\u0131nda genellikle bir korku, de\u011fersizlik veya su\u00e7luluk gibi bast\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir duygu yatmaktad\u0131r. G\u00fcvende olmama hissi ve ba\u011flanma ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 bireylerin daha korumac\u0131 ve k\u0131r\u0131lgan bir e\u011filimde olmas\u0131na neden olabilir. Ki\u015finin bu duygusuyla y\u00fczle\u015fmesi sorunun \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcndeki en \u00f6nemli ad\u0131m olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Acele_Etmeyin\"><\/span>Acele Etmeyin<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ya\u015fanan sorunlardan dolay\u0131 ili\u015fkinizin \u00e7\u0131kmaza girdi\u011fini ve art\u0131k ba\u015fka se\u00e7eneklerin kalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilirsiniz. Ancak \u015funu hat\u0131rlamakta fayda var; ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc bir s\u00fcre\u00e7teyiz ve her birimiz kendimizi d\u00f6rt duvar i\u00e7inde ister istemez bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda hissediyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tamam\u0131yla etkileyecek bir karar\u0131 vermek i\u00e7in do\u011fru bir zaman olmayabilir. Bu d\u00f6nemin ge\u00e7ici oldu\u011funu unutmay\u0131n. Yapmak istedi\u011finiz b\u00fcy\u00fck de\u011fi\u015fiklikleri bir d\u00f6nem ertelemek ileride sorunlar\u0131 daha mant\u0131kl\u0131 ve objektif bir \u015fekilde de\u011ferlendirmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Bireysel_Sinirlarinizi_Belirleyin\"><\/span>Bireysel S\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 Belirleyin<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-17 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" data-id=\"4533\" src=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/dusunen-adam.jpg\" alt=\"elinde dezenfektan ile tek ba\u015f\u0131na oturan maskeli adam\" class=\"wp-image-4533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/dusunen-adam.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/dusunen-adam-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/dusunen-adam-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/dusunen-adam-107x60.jpg 107w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ili\u015fkide bireylerinin birbirinin zihinsel, ruhsal ve fiziksel s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131na sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermesi \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Evde bu kadar fazla vakit ge\u00e7irdi\u011fimiz bu g\u00fcnlerde ortak alanlar\u0131n da payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 normal olarak artt\u0131. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kendinize ve partnerinize ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z vakit dengeli de\u011filse bir s\u00fcreden sonra kendinizi gergin, bunalm\u0131\u015f ve yorulmu\u015f hissedebilirsiniz. Her g\u00fcn kendinizle ba\u015f ba\u015fa kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, size iyi gelecek \u015feyleri yapmak i\u00e7in \u00f6zg\u00fcr hissetti\u011finiz bir alan\u0131n\u0131z ve zaman\u0131n\u0131z olmal\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ancak bireyselli\u011fe alan yarat\u0131rken zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z partnerinizin bunu istenmeme mesaj\u0131 olarak al\u0131p almad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilirsiniz. Bu ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kibar, samimi ve d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir \u015fekilde ifade etti\u011finizde partneriniz de sizi anlayacak ve s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131za sayg\u0131 duyma deneyimi geli\u015ftirecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yaln\u0131z kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bu alan i\u00e7erisinde kendi u\u011fra\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z ve \u00f6z bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131z ile ilgilenebilir, arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z ile sohbet edebilir, egzersiz yapabilir ya da kitap okuyabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar birbirini g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde daha az g\u00f6ren \u00e7iftlerin birbirini daha \u00e7ok \u00f6zledi\u011fini ve dolay\u0131s\u0131yla daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ili\u015fki ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steriyor. Her g\u00fcn her \u015feyi partnerinizle beraber yapmak bir s\u00fcreden sonra ili\u015fkinin monotonla\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 ve heyecan\u0131n\u0131n azalmas\u0131na neden olacakt\u0131r. \u0130li\u015fkiye canl\u0131l\u0131k getirmek istiyorsan\u0131z \u00f6nce kendinizi bireysel olarak canland\u0131rmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Sorumluluk_Alin\"><\/span>Sorumluluk Al\u0131n<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130\u00e7inizde ne kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck bir f\u0131rt\u0131na olsa da davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ve duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n tek sorumlusu yine kendinizsiniz. E\u011fer bu sorumlulu\u011fu b\u00fcy\u00fck bir cesaretle kabul ederseniz, sorunlar\u0131n\u0131zla y\u00fczle\u015febilir ve \u00e7\u00f6zmek ad\u0131na kendinize bir f\u0131rsat yaratabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130li\u015fkinizde yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z en b\u00fcy\u00fck hata kendi olumsuz duygular\u0131n\u0131z y\u00fcz\u00fcnden kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 su\u00e7lamak olacakt\u0131r. Zor bir karakterle beraber olabilirsiniz; ancak olumsuz duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 y\u00f6netmek sizin elinizdedir. Sessiz kal\u0131p i\u00e7inize atmak sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmeyecek; aksine s\u00fcrmesine neden olacakt\u0131r. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As\u0131l soru \u015fu; siz bunu de\u011fi\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in haz\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Farkindaliklarinizi_Artirin\"><\/span>Fark\u0131ndal\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 Art\u0131r\u0131n<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-18 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" data-id=\"4534\" src=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/adam-1.jpg\" alt=\"ev k\u0131yafetlerinin \u00fczerine pelerin takm\u0131\u015f adam\" class=\"wp-image-4534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/adam-1.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/adam-1-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/adam-1-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/adam-1-107x60.jpg 107w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Pandemi s\u00fcrecinde ili\u015fkinizin i\u00e7indeki g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve olumlu yanlar\u0131 ke\u015ffetmek, ataca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ilk ad\u0131m olabilir. Beraberli\u011finizde sizi besleyen kaynaklar, ili\u015fkinize keyif ve g\u00fcven veren \u015feyler nedir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Karantinay\u0131 kendi i\u00e7ine d\u00f6nmek ve ailesiyle vakit ge\u00e7irmek i\u00e7in bir f\u0131rsat olarak g\u00f6renlerin bu d\u00f6nemi daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 atlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rebiliyoruz. Hem parterinizi hem de kendinizi daha yak\u0131ndan tan\u0131yabilece\u011finiz s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z bir zaman var \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fczde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130li\u015fki i\u00e7indeki duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinizi ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6zlemleyin. Bedeninizin ve ruhunuzun ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131na ses verin. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir birey daha kendi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131nda de\u011filken, bir ili\u015fki i\u00e7inde i\u015flevsel bir \u015fekilde var olamaz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ayn\u0131 zamanda ev i\u00e7erisinde partnerinizle beraber ge\u00e7irdi\u011finiz zaman\u0131n kalitesini de\u011ferlendirin. Bu zaman ili\u015fkilerinizi nas\u0131l etkiliyor? Memnun oldu\u011funuz ve de\u011fi\u015ftirmek istedi\u011finiz \u015feylerin listesini yap\u0131n. Sevgi, sayg\u0131, g\u00fcven ve anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n ili\u015fkinizdeki rol\u00fcn\u00fc ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Beklemek_Yerine_Yapin\"><\/span>Beklemek Yerine Yap\u0131n<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130li\u015fkilerde en \u00e7ok yap\u0131lan hatalardan biri de; her zaman kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizi anlamas\u0131n\u0131 beklemek. Anla\u015f\u0131lmak istiyorsan\u0131z anlat\u0131n. De\u011fersiz hissediyorsan\u0131z partnerinize de\u011fer verip vermedi\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Takdir bekliyorsan\u0131z \u00f6nce siz partnerinizde sevdi\u011finiz \u015feyleri onaylay\u0131n. Heyecan istiyorsan\u0131z yarat\u0131n. Yard\u0131ma ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z varsa isteyin. Bir sorununuz varsa payla\u015f\u0131n. T\u00fcm \u00e7arelerin t\u00fckendi\u011fini hissetti\u011finiz anlarda payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n kendisinin \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn bir anahtar\u0131 oldu\u011funu unutmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Gorev_Dagilimi_Yapin\"><\/span>G\u00f6rev Da\u011f\u0131l\u0131m\u0131 Yap\u0131n<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-19 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" data-id=\"4531\" src=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/covid.jpg\" alt=\"elinde vocid-19 vir\u00fcs\u00fc tutan bir adam ve maske takmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan ba\u015fka bir adam\" class=\"wp-image-4531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/covid.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/covid-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/covid-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/covid-107x60.jpg 107w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Pandemi ile rollerin dengesi de de\u011fi\u015fmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Geleneksel davran\u0131\u015f kal\u0131plar\u0131ndan s\u0131y\u0131r\u0131l\u0131p yeni bir d\u00fczene tabi tutulduk. Anne ve baban\u0131n hem ev i\u015flerinde hem de \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131m\u0131nda e\u015fit rol almas\u0131 ili\u015fkideki dengeleyen en \u00f6nemli unsur oluyor. Tek ba\u015f\u0131na kad\u0131n\u0131n ev i\u015flerinde daha \u00e7ok rol almas\u0131 bir s\u00fcreden sonra cinsel hayat\u0131 da etkilemeye ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Destek_Alin\"><\/span>Destek Al\u0131n<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130li\u015fkilerin bizi t\u00fcketti\u011fini hissetti\u011fimiz noktada bazen o anki bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z sorunu \u00e7\u00f6zmeye yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmayabilir. Bu nedenle bazen profesyonel bir destek ili\u015fkinize sihirli bir de\u011fnek etkisi yaratabilir. E\u011fer birbirinizi seviyorsan\u0131z ve bu s\u00fcreci beraber atlatmak istiyorsan\u0131z destek almaktan \u00e7ekinmeyin. Yeni ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kma becerileri ve olumlu inan\u00e7lar geli\u015ftirmek ili\u015fkinize daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 devam edebilmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Normalle\u015fmeye do\u011fru yol ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z Covid-19 salg\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcreci boyunca, \u015fartlar\u0131n da etkisiyle aile \u00fcyelerimizle daha fazla zaman ge\u00e7irir olduk.&hellip;","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4535,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"csco_display_header_overlay":false,"csco_singular_sidebar":"","csco_page_header_type":"","csco_page_load_nextpost":"","csco_post_video_location":[],"csco_post_video_location_hash":"","csco_post_video_url":"","csco_post_video_bg_start_time":0,"csco_post_video_bg_end_time":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[66],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-4528","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-terapi","8":"cs-entry","9":"cs-video-wrap"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4528","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4528"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4528\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6887,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4528\/revisions\/6887"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4535"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4528"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4528"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4528"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}