{"id":4717,"date":"2021-03-08T17:00:17","date_gmt":"2021-03-08T14:00:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wordpress-1316973-5388710.cloudwaysapps.com\/?p=4717"},"modified":"2021-04-27T17:49:05","modified_gmt":"2021-04-27T14:49:05","slug":"toplumsal-cinsiyet-esitsizligi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/toplumsal-cinsiyet-esitsizligi\/","title":{"rendered":"Bir Umudumuz Daha Var Daha \u00d6zg\u00fcr Yar\u0131nlar \u0130\u00e7in"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Toplumsal Cinsiyet E\u015fitsizli\u011fine Bir Bak\u0131\u015f<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>8 Mart 1857\u2019de, ABD\u2019nin New York eyaletinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma ko\u015fullar\u0131n\u0131n iyile\u015ftirilmesini isteyen i\u015f\u00e7ilerin i\u015f b\u0131rakma eyleminden sonra \u00e7\u0131kan yang\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 120\u2019den fazla kad\u0131n i\u015f\u00e7i hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmi\u015fti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ya\u015fanan bu trajedinin nedeni, fabrika y\u00f6netiminin gerekli tedbirleri almamas\u0131yd\u0131. Hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybedenler sadece kad\u0131n i\u015f\u00e7iler de\u011fildi. Onlar; bir\u00e7o\u011funun annesi, e\u015fi, k\u0131z karde\u015fi, sevgilisi ve belki de en yak\u0131n arkada\u015f\u0131yd\u0131. Peki ya ne u\u011fruna \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015flerdi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00fcm d\u00fcnya tepki vermi\u015fti bu olay oldu\u011funda ve 8 Mart \u00f6zel bir g\u00fcn olarak ilan edilmi\u015fti. O g\u00fcnden bu yana daha \u00f6nce varl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 korkarak gizleyen bir\u00e7ok kad\u0131n art\u0131k sesini \u00e7\u0131karmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Her 8 Mart, sesini duyurmak isteyenlerin bulu\u015fma noktas\u0131 oldu. Mitingler, protestolar ve sloganlar\u0131n\u0131n at\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015fler asl\u0131nda \u015fimdiye kadar de\u011fersiz hissettirilen, varl\u0131klar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fclmeyen ve a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lanan kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in bir de\u011fi\u015fim \u00fcmidiydi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 ayn\u0131 sava\u015f\u0131n m\u00fccadelesini veriyoruz. E\u015fitsizlik normalle\u015firken; kad\u0131n\u0131n aleyhine olan her t\u00fcrl\u00fc bask\u0131c\u0131 norm g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez olmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Toplumsal sisteme h\u00fckmeden eril anlay\u0131\u015f \u00f6nce zihinleri ele ge\u00e7irdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sadece kad\u0131nlar de\u011fil, erkekler de kendilerine bi\u00e7ilen rollerden dolay\u0131 muzdarip bir hale geldiler. Y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r erkekler daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek i\u00e7in bask\u0131 ve stres alt\u0131nda, kad\u0131nlar da bast\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in kurban psikolojisi ile hayat\u0131 ya\u015famakta. Toplumun bize verdi\u011fi cinsiyet rollerinin \u00f6tesindeki kimli\u011fimizi ke\u015ffetmeye \u00e7abalarken; \u00f6\u011fretilmi\u015f kal\u0131plardan s\u0131yr\u0131l\u0131p yeni bir inan\u00e7 sistemi ortaya \u00e7\u0131karmak i\u00e7in h\u00e2l\u00e2 uzun bir yol almam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-1 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-15 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/eller-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"karanfil tutan ojeli t\u0131rnaklar\u0131 olan kad\u0131n elleri\" data-id=\"4718\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/eller.jpg\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=4718\" class=\"wp-image-4718\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/eller-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/eller-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/eller-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/eller-107x60.jpg 107w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/eller.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Belki hukuki a\u00e7\u0131dan her anlamda kad\u0131n ve erkek e\u015fit g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de, cinsiyet e\u015fitsizli\u011finin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir yer s\u00f6yleyebilir misiniz?&nbsp; \u0130\u015f yerlerinde, e\u011fitim hayat\u0131nda, medyada ve en \u00f6nemlisi de ailede\u2026 Hegemonik erkeklik anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011fu bu sistemde kad\u0131nlar\u0131n haklar\u0131 bazen bilin\u00e7li bazen de bilin\u00e7siz olarak her yerde ihlal ediliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kad\u0131nlar fiziksel \u015fiddete ve cinsel istismara maruz kal\u0131rken; bunu yapan erkekler sokakta \u00f6zg\u00fcrce dola\u015fabiliyor. Anne ve babalar k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131s\u0131tlarken erkek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 serbest b\u0131rakabiliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cinsiyetleri y\u00fcz\u00fcnden erkekler y\u00fcceltilirken kad\u0131nlar sadece utand\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor ve regl oldu\u011funu dahi kendi annelerine s\u00f6ylemekten korkuyor. Erkeklere gen\u00e7li\u011finde ka\u00e7 ki\u015fiyle beraber oldu\u011fu sorulurken k\u0131zlar\u0131 ili\u015fkiden uzak tutmak i\u00e7in b\u00fct\u00fcn bask\u0131 y\u00f6ntemleri kullan\u0131l\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O\u011flan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na g\u00fc\u00e7, \u015fiddet, \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck ve otorite bir marifetmi\u015f gibi \u00f6\u011fretiliyor. Ve en sonunda k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6vmeyen dizini d\u00f6vmek zorunda kal\u0131yor\u2026 <strong>Peki ama, ne yapmal\u0131?<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-1 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-16 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kadinlar-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"sa\u011fa sola bakan kad\u0131nlar\" data-id=\"4719\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kadinlar.jpg\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=4719\" class=\"wp-image-4719\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kadinlar-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kadinlar-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kadinlar-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kadinlar-107x60.jpg 107w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kadinlar.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015eimdiye kadar bu sava\u015f\u0131 yenmek i\u00e7in hep kad\u0131nlar sesini \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131. Ne yaz\u0131k ki bu kal\u0131c\u0131 bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm olmad\u0131. Toplumsal bir alg\u0131y\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmek s\u00f6z konusu oldu\u011funda \u00f6ncelikle en temele inilmesi ve kad\u0131n\u0131n maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131k ara\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n giderilmesi gerekiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her birey toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fine dair ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 zihnen sorgulamal\u0131 ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrme konusunda kendi sorumlulu\u011funu almal\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Toplumsal d\u00fczeyde cinsiyet ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na dayal\u0131 kal\u0131p yarg\u0131lar\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmesi i\u00e7in bilin\u00e7lendirme ve fark\u0131ndal\u0131k \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131n aileden ba\u015flay\u0131p t\u00fcm e\u011fitim kurumlar\u0131nda, i\u015f hayat\u0131nda, \u00fcniversitelerde, medyada ve dini topluluklarda uygulanmas\u0131 gerekmektedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ebeveynler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fine duyarl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde yeti\u015ftirmeli. Biyolojik cinsiyet ve toplumsal cinsiyet kimliklerinin ayr\u0131m\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretilmeli, insan haklar\u0131n\u0131 do\u011frultusunda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 sosyalize etmeliler. K\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131nda \u00f6z de\u011fer alg\u0131s\u0131 geli\u015ftirilmeli ve s\u0131n\u0131r kavram\u0131 benimsetilmelidir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Geleneksel d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin ve alg\u0131lar\u0131n bir yans\u0131mas\u0131 olan dil kullan\u0131m\u0131na dikkat edilmeli. Ne yaz\u0131k ki T\u00fcrk\u00e7e\u2019ye yerle\u015fmi\u015f baz\u0131 c\u00fcmleler h\u00e2l\u00e2 cinsiyet ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7ermektedir. Fark\u0131nda olmadan bu c\u00fcmlelerin g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta kullan\u0131lmas\u0131, toplumsal cinsiyet rollerinin bireyler taraf\u0131ndan i\u00e7selle\u015ftirilmesine neden olmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kad\u0131na korku, ac\u0131 ve \u0131st\u0131raptan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey vermeyen \u015fiddet, sosyal bir kontrol mekanizmas\u0131 i\u015flevi haline gelmi\u015ftir. \u015eiddetin hi\u00e7bir t\u00fcr\u00fc kabul edilmemeli, \u015fiddet ma\u011fdurlar\u0131n\u0131n ve \u015fiddet uygulayan ki\u015filerin destek almas\u0131 te\u015fvik edilmelidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kimsenin cinsiyetine g\u00f6re s\u0131n\u0131fland\u0131r\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve yarg\u0131lanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir d\u00fcnya i\u00e7in \u00f6nce t\u00fcm kad\u0131nlar\u0131n herkesten ve her \u015feyden ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z bir \u015fekilde kendisine de\u011fer vermeyi \u00f6\u011frenmesi gerekmektedir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendini seven ve de\u011fer veren bir kad\u0131n; \u015fiddete, ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011fa ve haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa her zaman dur deme becerisine sahip olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Toplumsal Cinsiyet E\u015fitsizli\u011fine Bir Bak\u0131\u015f 8 Mart 1857\u2019de, ABD\u2019nin New York eyaletinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma ko\u015fullar\u0131n\u0131n iyile\u015ftirilmesini isteyen i\u015f\u00e7ilerin i\u015f&hellip;","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4720,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"csco_display_header_overlay":false,"csco_singular_sidebar":"","csco_page_header_type":"","csco_page_load_nextpost":"","csco_post_video_location":[],"csco_post_video_location_hash":"","csco_post_video_url":"","csco_post_video_bg_start_time":0,"csco_post_video_bg_end_time":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-4717","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-genel","8":"cs-entry","9":"cs-video-wrap"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4717","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4717"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4717\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4814,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4717\/revisions\/4814"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4720"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4717"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4717"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4717"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}