{"id":5429,"date":"2022-02-27T08:04:00","date_gmt":"2022-02-27T05:04:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wordpress-1316973-5388710.cloudwaysapps.com\/?p=5429"},"modified":"2022-02-24T11:55:02","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T08:55:02","slug":"akran-zorbaligi-nedir-nasil-engellenir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/akran-zorbaligi-nedir-nasil-engellenir\/","title":{"rendered":"Akran Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 Nedir? Nas\u0131l Engellenir?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00e7ocuk ya da ergenin kendi ya\u015f grubundaki arkada\u015f veya arkada\u015flar\u0131na y\u00f6nelik s\u00f6zel, fiziksel ve davran\u0131\u015fsal olarak zarar verici davran\u0131\u015flarda bulunmas\u0131d\u0131r. Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ki\u015fi taraf\u0131ndan uygulanabilece\u011fi gibi grup halinde de bir ki\u015fiye uygulanabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zorbal\u0131k durumunda 3 ki\u015fi vard\u0131r:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" type=\"1\"><li>Zorba:&nbsp;Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n haklar\u0131n\u0131 dikkate almadan; kendi stat\u00fc, heyecan, maddi kazanc\u0131 i\u00e7in veya grup ortam\u0131nda kendi gereksinimlerini kar\u015f\u0131layabilmek amac\u0131yla ba\u015fkalar\u0131na zarar verici davran\u0131\u015flarda bulunan ki\u015fi ya da gruptur.<\/li><li>Ma\u011fdur: Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan s\u00fcrekli bir bi\u00e7imde zarar g\u00f6ren ve zarar verici bu davran\u0131\u015flara kar\u015f\u0131 koyabilecek ve durdurabilecek beceri, stat\u00fc ve kaynaklara sahip olmayan ki\u015fi ya da gruptur.<\/li><li>Seyirciler:&nbsp;Bu grup da kendi i\u00e7inde d\u00f6rt ayr\u0131 tipte s\u0131n\u0131fland\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Peki\u015ftiriciler, aktif seyirci rol\u00fcnde zorbay\u0131 \u00e7e\u015fitli \u015fekillerde k\u0131\u015fk\u0131rtmakta; pasif izleyiciler olan biteni g\u00f6rm\u00fcyormu\u015f\u00e7as\u0131na davranmaktad\u0131rlar. Asistan tip kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar, fiziksel olarak zorbaya yard\u0131m etmekte, bir nevi yard\u0131mc\u0131 rol\u00fcn\u00fc \u00fcstlenmektedirler. Son grupta yer alan savunucular ise ma\u011fdura yard\u0131m etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p zorbayla y\u00fczle\u015febilen \u00f6\u011frencilerdir (Pi\u015fkin, 2002; T\u00fcrktan, 2013).<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_73 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title ez-toc-toggle\" style=\"cursor:pointer\">\u0130\u00e7indekiler<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/akran-zorbaligi-nedir-nasil-engellenir\/#Akran_Zorbaligi_Turleri_Nelerdir\" title=\"Akran Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 T\u00fcrleri Nelerdir?\">Akran Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 T\u00fcrleri Nelerdir?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/akran-zorbaligi-nedir-nasil-engellenir\/#Cocugunuzun_Akran_Zorbaligina_Ugradigini_Nasil_Anlayabilirsiniz\" title=\"\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun Akran Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131na U\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Nas\u0131l Anlayabilirsiniz?\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun Akran Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131na U\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Nas\u0131l Anlayabilirsiniz?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/akran-zorbaligi-nedir-nasil-engellenir\/#Zorbaliga_Maruz_Kalan_Cocuklarda_Gorulebilecek_Davranislar_Nelerdir\" title=\"Zorbal\u0131\u011fa Maruz Kalan \u00c7ocuklarda G\u00f6r\u00fclebilecek Davran\u0131\u015flar Nelerdir?\">Zorbal\u0131\u011fa Maruz Kalan \u00c7ocuklarda G\u00f6r\u00fclebilecek Davran\u0131\u015flar Nelerdir?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/akran-zorbaligi-nedir-nasil-engellenir\/#Akran_Zorbaligi_ile_Nasil_Bas_Edilir\" title=\"Akran Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile Nas\u0131l Ba\u015f Edilir?\">Akran Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile Nas\u0131l Ba\u015f Edilir?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/akran-zorbaligi-nedir-nasil-engellenir\/#Magdur_Olan_Cocugun_Ebeveyni_Olarak_Ne_Yapmalisiniz\" title=\"Ma\u011fdur Olan \u00c7ocu\u011fun Ebeveyni Olarak Ne Yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?\">Ma\u011fdur Olan \u00c7ocu\u011fun Ebeveyni Olarak Ne Yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/akran-zorbaligi-nedir-nasil-engellenir\/#Zorba_Olan_Cocugun_Ebeveyni_Olarak_Ne_Yapmalisiniz\" title=\"Zorba Olan \u00c7ocu\u011fun Ebeveyni Olarak Ne Yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?\">Zorba Olan \u00c7ocu\u011fun Ebeveyni Olarak Ne Yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/akran-zorbaligi-nedir-nasil-engellenir\/#Kaynakca\" title=\"Kaynak\u00e7a\">Kaynak\u00e7a<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Akran_Zorbaligi_Turleri_Nelerdir\"><\/span>Akran Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 T\u00fcrleri Nelerdir?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131; s\u00f6zel \u015fiddet, fiziksel \u015fiddet, cinsel \u015fiddet, sosyal \u015fiddet ve siber \u015fiddet olarak be\u015fe ayr\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>S\u00f6zel Zorbal\u0131k:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>En s\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fclen zorbal\u0131k t\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr. Dalga ge\u00e7me, k\u0131zd\u0131rma, korkutma, alay etme, takma isimler tak\u0131p k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrme, k\u00fcf\u00fcr ve hakaret etme, tehdit etme, incitici s\u00f6zler s\u00f6yleme olarak \u00f6rnek verilebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Fiziksel Zorbal\u0131k:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130tme, vurma ya da bir arkada\u015f\u0131na vurdurtma, sa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekme, t\u00fck\u00fcrme, e\u015fyalar\u0131na zarar verme ve izinsiz alma gibi \u00f6rnek verilebilir. Fiziksel hareketler ile yap\u0131lan bir zorbal\u0131k t\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Cinsel Zorbal\u0131k:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cinsel anlamda dokunma, s\u00f6zl\u00fc ya da fiziksel cinsel tacizde bulunma, cinsel i\u00e7erikli k\u00fcf\u00fcr etme olarak \u00f6rnek verilebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Sosyal Zorbal\u0131k:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Onunla konu\u015fan ki\u015filerin ileti\u015fimde bulunmas\u0131n\u0131 engellemek, oyun oynarken oyuna dahil etmeme, arkada\u015f gruplar\u0131na dahil etmemek d\u0131\u015flamak, \u00e7ocuk yokmu\u015f gibi davranmak ve onu d\u0131\u015flamak, \u00e7ocuk ile konu\u015fmamak olarak \u00f6rnek verilebilir. Yani sosyal ortamlardan izole olmas\u0131na neden olan davran\u0131\u015flard\u0131r diyebiliriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Siber Zorbal\u0131k:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sosyal medya ortam\u0131nda ya da internet ortam\u0131nda rahats\u0131z edici foto\u011fraflar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekip payla\u015fma, sosyal medya da ki\u015fi hakk\u0131nda yaz\u0131lar payla\u015fma, ki\u015finin sosyal medya hesaplar\u0131n\u0131 ele ge\u00e7irme olarak \u00f6rnek verilebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/akran_zorbaligi_nedir_nasil_engellenir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_1-1024x576.png\" alt=\"\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun Akran Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131na U\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Nas\u0131l Anlayabilirsiniz?\" class=\"wp-image-5430\" srcset=\"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/akran_zorbaligi_nedir_nasil_engellenir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_1-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/akran_zorbaligi_nedir_nasil_engellenir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_1-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/akran_zorbaligi_nedir_nasil_engellenir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_1-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/akran_zorbaligi_nedir_nasil_engellenir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_1-107x60.png 107w, https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/akran_zorbaligi_nedir_nasil_engellenir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_1.png 1281w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cocugunuzun_Akran_Zorbaligina_Ugradigini_Nasil_Anlayabilirsiniz\"><\/span>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun Akran Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131na U\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Nas\u0131l Anlayabilirsiniz?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011frayan \u00e7ocuk(lar):<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>V\u00fccudunda fiziksel yaralanmalar olur.<\/li><li>Okula gitmek istemezler ve bahaneler bulurlar.<\/li><li>Okula kar\u015f\u0131 korku ya da nefret s\u00f6ylemlerinde bulunurlar.<\/li><li>Beslenmede problem ya\u015farlar.<\/li><li>Depresif davran\u0131\u015flarda bulunurlar.<\/li><li>\u00d6z g\u00fcvende bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fc\u015f ya\u015farlar.<\/li><li>Evden \u00e7\u0131kmak istemezler.<\/li><li>S\u0131n\u0131fta kimseyle konu\u015fmak istemezler.<\/li><li>Okul ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015fme g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr.<\/li><li>Derslerine odaklanmada zorluk \u00e7ekerler.<\/li><li>Kendisine ait okul e\u015fyalar\u0131nda ve k\u0131yafetlerinde eksiklik, y\u0131rt\u0131lma gibi durumlar ya\u015fanabilir.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Zorbaliga_Maruz_Kalan_Cocuklarda_Gorulebilecek_Davranislar_Nelerdir\"><\/span>Zorbal\u0131\u011fa Maruz Kalan \u00c7ocuklarda G\u00f6r\u00fclebilecek Davran\u0131\u015flar Nelerdir?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Kayg\u0131 bozuklu\u011fu,<\/li><li>Okula devams\u0131zl\u0131k,<\/li><li>\u00d6z g\u00fcven d\u00fc\u015f\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc,<\/li><li>Uyku sorunlar\u0131,<\/li><li>\u00d6fke patlamas\u0131<\/li><li>\u0130\u00e7e kapanma<\/li><li>T\u0131rnak yeme,<\/li><li>Akademik ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Akran_Zorbaligi_ile_Nasil_Bas_Edilir\"><\/span>Akran Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile Nas\u0131l Ba\u015f Edilir?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011frayan \u00e7ocuklar bu durumu kolay kolay aileleri ile payla\u015fmazlar. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 payla\u015fmak istemeyebilir, utanabilir ve kendilerini su\u00e7layabilirler. Bu y\u00fczden \u00e7ocukla ileti\u015fim halinde olmak ve \u00e7ocu\u011fu g\u00f6zlemlemek \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuz bu ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 durumu anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda onu \u00e7ok iyi bir \u015fekilde dinleyin ve s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kesmeyin. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun duygular\u0131n\u0131 anlamak ve g\u00fcvende oldu\u011funu belirtmek \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Siz de ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdan ge\u00e7en olaylar\u0131 hemen anlatmay\u0131n. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun durumu size anlatmas\u0131 i\u00e7in zaman verin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cSana bunu yapmalar\u0131na neden izin veriyorsun?\u201d, \u201cSonra sen ne yapt\u0131n ve ne dedin?\u201d gibi sorgulay\u0131c\u0131 c\u00fcmlelerden uzak durun.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun sald\u0131rgan davran\u0131\u015f isteklerini yerine getirmesine izin verilmemeli ve bu davran\u0131\u015flar peki\u015ftirilmemelidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun anlatt\u0131klar\u0131na g\u00fcvenin. \u201cSen de bir \u015fey mi yapt\u0131n?\u201d gibi sorular sormay\u0131n. Neden, ni\u00e7in sorular\u0131yla bilgi almaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak \u00e7ocu\u011fun su\u00e7lu hissetmesine neden olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun anlatm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu bu durum kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda h\u0131zl\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulma (\u201cBen o \u00e7ocukla konu\u015furum, annesini arar\u0131m hallederim\u201d) yoluna gitmek bir yarar sa\u011flamayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kendi ba\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u00f6zmesi i\u00e7in \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuz ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu durumu sizinle payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in te\u015fekk\u00fcr edin ve sevginizi g\u00f6stermeyi ihmal etmeyin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131na maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark eden ebeveynin yapmas\u0131 gereken \u015fey okul psikolojik dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 ile ileti\u015fime ge\u00e7mektir. Okul psikolojik dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131n\u0131n bu konuyu okul y\u00f6netimine aktard\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan emin olun ve bu konuyu takip edin. Bu sorunu okulun \u00e7\u00f6zmesi i\u00e7in de okula zaman tan\u0131y\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/akran_zorbaligi_nedir_nasil_engellenir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_2-1024x576.png\" alt=\"Ma\u011fdur Olan \u00c7ocu\u011fun Ebeveyni Olarak Ne Yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?\" class=\"wp-image-5431\" srcset=\"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/akran_zorbaligi_nedir_nasil_engellenir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_2-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/akran_zorbaligi_nedir_nasil_engellenir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_2-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/akran_zorbaligi_nedir_nasil_engellenir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_2-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/akran_zorbaligi_nedir_nasil_engellenir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_2-107x60.png 107w, https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/akran_zorbaligi_nedir_nasil_engellenir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_2.png 1281w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Magdur_Olan_Cocugun_Ebeveyni_Olarak_Ne_Yapmalisiniz\"><\/span>Ma\u011fdur Olan \u00c7ocu\u011fun Ebeveyni Olarak Ne Yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ebeveyn olarak en \u00f6nemli \u015fey iyi ili\u015fki kurmakt\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzu dinlemek; ileti\u015fim halinde bulunmak, kaliteli zaman ge\u00e7irmek \u00f6nemlidir. Anne baba ile ili\u015fkileri iyi olan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n, benlik sayg\u0131lar\u0131 y\u00fcksektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar \u00e7e\u015fitli sosyal ve sportif alanlara y\u00f6neltilmeli, ilgi alanlar\u0131na y\u00f6nelik etkinlikleri ve hobilerini yapmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in f\u0131rsatlar verilmelidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuz ile duygular hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Empatik olun, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu su\u00e7lamay\u0131n. Ya\u015fan\u0131lan durumu hafifletmeyin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130htiya\u00e7 dahilinde \u00e7ocu\u011fun zarar g\u00f6rmemesi i\u00e7in bir uzmandan psikolojik destek al\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yap\u0131lan ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar; hassas, sakin kibar, duygusal ve minyon yap\u0131da olan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n daha fazla zorbal\u0131\u011fa maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steriyor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuz ya\u015f\u0131tlar\u0131na g\u00f6re daha az sosyalse, kendisinde \u00f6z g\u00fcven eksikli\u011fi g\u00f6zlemliyorsan\u0131z, i\u00e7ine kapan\u0131k bir \u00e7ocuk ve ya\u015f\u0131tlar\u0131na g\u00f6re daha minyon ise bir etkinlik ile tan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayabilirsiniz. Bu etkinlik sayesinde davran\u0131\u015fsal olarak kendisini geli\u015ftirmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilirsiniz. Bu etkinlikler sayesinde \u00e7ocuk yeteneklerini fark eder ve bunun sonucunda da \u00f6z g\u00fcveni de artar. Zorba olan \u00e7ocuk her zaman kendinden g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcz g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ki\u015fi ya da ki\u015filere kar\u015f\u0131 zorbal\u0131kta bulunur. Bu sebeple de sosyal ve \u00f6z g\u00fcvenli bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131na maruz kalma durumu da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck olmaktad\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun sosyal becerilerini geli\u015ftirmek \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 yeti\u015ftirmede iyi bir model olmak, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n iyi yanlar\u0131n\u0131 desteklemek, onlara hay\u0131r diyebilme becerisini kazand\u0131rmak ve \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc vermek \u00f6nemlidir. Hay\u0131r demeyi \u00f6\u011frenen \u00e7ocuk s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 iyi bir \u015fekilde korur ve zorbalara kar\u015f\u0131 durabilirler. \u0130yi bir model olma yolunda, ezilen ki\u015filere kar\u015f\u0131 tutumlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ve \u00f6fke konusunda verdi\u011finiz tepkilerinizin \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu bilmenizde fayda vard\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Zorba_Olan_Cocugun_Ebeveyni_Olarak_Ne_Yapmalisiniz\"><\/span>Zorba Olan \u00c7ocu\u011fun Ebeveyni Olarak Ne Yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Zorbal\u0131k konusunda en \u00e7ok ya\u015fanan sorun, zorba davran\u0131\u015f g\u00f6steren \u00e7ocu\u011fun ebeveyninin bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 normal bir durummu\u015f gibi g\u00f6sterip m\u00fcdahale etmemesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu durumda \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla konu\u015fman\u0131z gerekmektedir. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 savunmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n do\u011fal olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 belirtmelisiniz. Zorbal\u0131k davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n kabul edilemez durum oldu\u011funu vurgulay\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sald\u0131rgan davran\u0131\u015flar ile istedi\u011fini elde etmesine izin vermeyin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu konuda tutarl\u0131 ve kararl\u0131 davran\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun seyretti\u011fi programlar, filmler ve oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bilgisayar oyunlar\u0131 takip edilmeli; kontrol alt\u0131na al\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zorbal\u0131\u011fa maruz kalan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n duygusunu anlatarak onlarla empati kurmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flay\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Okul ile ileti\u015fimde olmak bu durumda da \u00f6nemlidir.&nbsp;Zorbal\u0131\u011fa u\u011frayan \u00e7ocuk kadar zorba davran\u0131\u015fta bulunan \u00e7ocu\u011fa da destek gerekmektedir. Onu bu davran\u0131\u015fa iten sebepler ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.evimdekipsikolog.com\/Danismanlar\/BasakDuman\/2137\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>Ba\u015fak Duman<br><\/strong>Klinik Psikolog<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Kaynakca\"><\/span>Kaynak\u00e7a<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Pi\u015fkin, M. (2002). Okul zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131: Tan\u0131m\u0131, t\u00fcrleri, ili\u015fkili oldu\u011fu fakt\u00f6rler ve al\u0131nabilecek \u00f6nlemler. Kuram ve Uygulamada E\u011fitim Bilimleri, 2(2), 531-562.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00fcrktan, \u015e. (2013). Zorbal\u0131kla ba\u015f etmeye y\u00f6nelik akran destek program\u0131n\u0131n ortaokul 6. ve 7. s\u0131n\u0131f \u00f6\u011frencilerinin zorbal\u0131kla ba\u015f etme becerilerine etkileri. Unpublished doctoral dissertation). Anadolu University Graduate School of Educational Sciences, Eski\u015fehir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00e7ocuk ya da ergenin kendi ya\u015f grubundaki arkada\u015f veya arkada\u015flar\u0131na y\u00f6nelik s\u00f6zel, fiziksel ve davran\u0131\u015fsal olarak&hellip;","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5432,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"csco_display_header_overlay":false,"csco_singular_sidebar":"","csco_page_header_type":"","csco_page_load_nextpost":"","csco_post_video_location":[],"csco_post_video_location_hash":"","csco_post_video_url":"","csco_post_video_bg_start_time":0,"csco_post_video_bg_end_time":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[197],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-5429","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-cocuk-ergen-ebeveyn","8":"cs-entry","9":"cs-video-wrap"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5429","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5429"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5429\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5433,"href":"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5429\/revisions\/5433"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5432"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5429"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5429"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healmeup-blog-test.internalapps.rocks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5429"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}