{"id":5806,"date":"2022-10-30T07:21:00","date_gmt":"2022-10-30T04:21:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wordpress-1316973-5388710.cloudwaysapps.com\/?p=5806"},"modified":"2022-11-11T22:28:34","modified_gmt":"2022-11-11T19:28:34","slug":"soz-dinlemeyen-cocuga-nasil-davranilmalidir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/soz-dinlemeyen-cocuga-nasil-davranilmalidir\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u00f6z Dinlemeyen \u00c7ocu\u011fa Nas\u0131l Davran\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u00c7ocuk e\u011fitiminde \u201cs\u00f6z dinlememe\u201d davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 ebeveynlerin s\u0131k\u00e7a \u015fikayet etti\u011fi durumlardan birisidir. \u00c7ocu\u011fun bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 anlayabilmek i\u00e7in dikkate al\u0131nmas\u0131 gereken birka\u00e7 \u00f6nemli nokta bulunmaktad\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_80 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title ez-toc-toggle\" style=\"cursor:pointer\">\u0130\u00e7indekiler<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/soz-dinlemeyen-cocuga-nasil-davranilmalidir\/#Soz_Dinlememenin_Temelinde_Yatan_Sorunlar_Nelerdir\" >S\u00f6z Dinlememenin Temelinde Yatan Sorunlar Nelerdir?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/soz-dinlemeyen-cocuga-nasil-davranilmalidir\/#Soz_Dinlemeyen_Cocuga_Nasil_Davranmalidir\" >S\u00f6z Dinlemeyen \u00c7ocu\u011fa Nas\u0131l Davranmal\u0131d\u0131r?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Soz_Dinlememenin_Temelinde_Yatan_Sorunlar_Nelerdir\"><\/span>S\u00f6z Dinlememenin Temelinde Yatan Sorunlar Nelerdir?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d6ncelikle \u00e7ocu\u011fun i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fu ya\u015f grubu bize \u00e7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fimsel davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 hakk\u0131nda ipu\u00e7lar\u0131 verir. Geli\u015fim \u00e7a\u011f\u0131 \u00f6zelli\u011fi olarak kendi bedeni \u00fczerinde g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcn fark\u0131na varmaya ba\u015flayan 2-3 ya\u015f \u00e7ocuklar\u0131nda s\u00f6z dinlememe sorunu fazlala\u015fabilir. \u00c7ocuk; inatla\u015farak, ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131p, a\u011flayarak ya da e\u015fya f\u0131rlatarak istediklerini elde etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilir. Bu krizlerin, geli\u015fimin bir par\u00e7as\u0131 oldu\u011funun fark\u0131nda olarak sakin kalmak ebeveynler i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. \u00c7ocuk zamanla sabretmeyi, ko\u015fullara uygun hareket etmeyi \u00f6\u011frenecektir. Ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131p, k\u0131zarak ve korkutarak \u00e7ocu\u011fa davran\u0131\u015f \u015fekilleri \u00f6\u011fretmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak kal\u0131c\u0131 bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm olmayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dikkat edilmesi gereken bir di\u011fer nokta ebeveynin \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 tutumudur. \u00c7ok kat\u0131 ya da \u00e7ok esnek, tutars\u0131z ve karars\u0131z, ilgisiz ve cezaland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f tutumlar\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar \u00fczerinde s\u00f6z dinlememe davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 artt\u0131rabilir. Bu y\u00fczden \u00e7ocu\u011fun yeti\u015fti\u011fi ailenin ko\u015fullar\u0131 son derece \u00f6nemlidir. Kararl\u0131, tutarl\u0131, ilgili, destekleyici bir yakla\u015f\u0131m \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n daha g\u00fcvende hissetmesini sa\u011flar. \u00c7ocuk e\u011fitiminde net s\u0131n\u0131rlar koyulmas\u0131 \u00e7ocuklardaki kafa kar\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 giderir ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir otorite olu\u015fturur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Di\u011fer taraftan ebeveynler aras\u0131 ili\u015fki de \u00e7ocu\u011fun davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na yans\u0131yan \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli noktalardan biridir. Unutmamal\u0131d\u0131r ki \u00e7ocuklar \u00f6zellikle anne baba aras\u0131ndaki davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ve di\u011fer insanlar\u0131n ili\u015fkilerini g\u00f6zlemlemektedir. \u00c7ocu\u011fun \u015fahit oldu\u011fu olumsuz davran\u0131\u015f tutumlar\u0131, anne ve baba aras\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocu\u011fa yans\u0131yan fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 etkileyebilir. Bu sebeple \u00e7ocuk \u00fczerinde ortak fikirlere var\u0131larak, ortak kararlar ve tutumlar ile hareket edilmelidir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunlara ek olarak, \u00e7ocu\u011fun karde\u015fi olmas\u0131, anne-baban\u0131n bo\u015fanma s\u00fcrecinde olmas\u0131, yak\u0131n birinin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc gibi durumlar da \u00e7ocuklarda s\u00f6z dinlememe davran\u0131\u015f\u0131na sebep olabilir. \u00c7ocuklarda duygu kontrol\u00fc yeti\u015fkinlerdeki gibi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, kayg\u0131 gibi olumsuz duygularla ba\u015f etmekte zorlanan \u00e7ocuklarda davran\u0131\u015f sorunlar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/soz_dinlemeyen_cocuga_nasil_davranilmalidir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_1-992x1024.png\" alt=\"S\u00f6z Dinlemeyen \u00c7ocu\u011fa Nas\u0131l Davranmal\u0131d\u0131r?\" class=\"wp-image-5807\" width=\"467\" height=\"482\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/soz_dinlemeyen_cocuga_nasil_davranilmalidir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_1-992x1024.png 992w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/soz_dinlemeyen_cocuga_nasil_davranilmalidir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_1-291x300.png 291w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/soz_dinlemeyen_cocuga_nasil_davranilmalidir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_1-768x793.png 768w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/soz_dinlemeyen_cocuga_nasil_davranilmalidir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_1-58x60.png 58w, https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/soz_dinlemeyen_cocuga_nasil_davranilmalidir_evimdeki_psikolog_com_1.png 1246w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 467px) 100vw, 467px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Soz_Dinlemeyen_Cocuga_Nasil_Davranmalidir\"><\/span>S\u00f6z Dinlemeyen \u00c7ocu\u011fa Nas\u0131l Davranmal\u0131d\u0131r?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocukla inatla\u015fmadan, a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a konu\u015farak ve tutarl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde ileti\u015fim kuruldu\u011funda \u00e7ocukta istenmeyen davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 s\u00f6nd\u00fcrmek daha kolay olacakt\u0131r. Hay\u0131r dedikten sonra, \u00e7ocu\u011fun olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 vazge\u00e7memek, g\u00fczel davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 takdir etmek, olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flarda \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck tepkiler vermeden yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu dile getirmek sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir yakla\u015f\u0131m olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011fun istedi\u011fi anne-baban\u0131n ilgisinin onun \u00fczerinde olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bunu elde etti\u011fi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmeye devam edecektir. Bu y\u00fczden \u00e7ocu\u011fa en \u00e7ok hangi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda olumlu ya da olumsuz ilgi g\u00f6sterildi\u011fine dikkat etmek gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unutulmamas\u0131 gereken en \u00f6nemli nokta \u00e7ocukta s\u00f6z dinlememe davran\u0131\u015f\u0131nda sebep her ne olursa olsun, en iyi \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm sevgiyle, sayg\u0131yla, de\u011fer vererek onu destekleyecek olan bir ebeveyndir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/Danismanlar\/Ayse-Humeyra-San\/1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>Ay\u015fe H\u00fcmeyra \u015ean<br><\/strong>Psikolog\/Aile Dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuk e\u011fitiminde \u201cs\u00f6z dinlememe\u201d davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 ebeveynlerin s\u0131k\u00e7a \u015fikayet etti\u011fi durumlardan birisidir. \u00c7ocu\u011fun bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 anlayabilmek i\u00e7in dikkate al\u0131nmas\u0131&hellip;","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5808,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"csco_display_header_overlay":false,"csco_singular_sidebar":"","csco_page_header_type":"","csco_page_load_nextpost":"","csco_post_video_location":[],"csco_post_video_location_hash":"","csco_post_video_url":"","csco_post_video_bg_start_time":0,"csco_post_video_bg_end_time":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[197],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-5806","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-cocuk-ergen-ebeveyn","8":"cs-entry","9":"cs-video-wrap"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5806","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5806"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5806\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5809,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5806\/revisions\/5809"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5808"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5806"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5806"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5806"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}