{"id":7258,"date":"2026-11-04T09:54:47","date_gmt":"2026-11-04T06:54:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/"},"modified":"2026-11-04T09:55:06","modified_gmt":"2026-11-04T06:55:06","slug":"gaslighting-ornekleri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/","title":{"rendered":"Gaslighting \u00f6rnekleri: 8 davran\u0131\u015f ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rlar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>D\u00fcn ak\u015fam ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 sakin bir \u015fekilde hat\u0131rl\u0131yorsunuz. Bug\u00fcn konuyu a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fi, o s\u00f6zleri hi\u00e7 s\u00f6ylemedi\u011fini, olay\u0131 sizin b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc ve yanl\u0131\u015f anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Konu\u015fma bitti\u011finde hakl\u0131 olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fil, haf\u0131zan\u0131za g\u00fcvenip g\u00fcvenemeyece\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015fl\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Gaslighting ili\u015fkide nas\u0131l fark edilir sorusu \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bu noktada ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. Gaslighting, bir ki\u015finin kendi ger\u00e7ekli\u011finden ve duygular\u0131ndan \u015f\u00fcphe etmeye ba\u015flamas\u0131na yol a\u00e7an manip\u00fclatif bir davran\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7imidir. Tek bir anla\u015fmazl\u0131ktan \u00e7ok, tekrar eden bir \u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcy\u00fc anlamak \u00f6nemlidir. A\u015fa\u011f\u0131da ili\u015fkilerde kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131labilecek <strong>sekiz yayg\u0131n gaslighting \u00f6rne\u011fini<\/strong> senaryolarla inceleyece\u011fiz, her birinin hangi duygusal alan\u0131 hedefledi\u011fini ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131n nas\u0131l \u00e7izilebilece\u011fini a\u00e7\u0131klayaca\u011f\u0131z. Ama\u00e7 kimseye tan\u0131 koymak de\u011fil, g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerinizi isimlendirmenize ve kendi deneyiminize daha g\u00fcvenle bakman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"gaslighting-orneklerini-okurken-aklnzda-tutabileceginiz-cerceve\"><\/a><\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_80 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title ez-toc-toggle\" style=\"cursor:pointer\">\u0130\u00e7indekiler<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#Gaslighting_orneklerini_okurken_aklinizda_tutabileceginiz_cerceve\" >Gaslighting \u00f6rneklerini okurken akl\u0131n\u0131zda tutabilece\u011finiz \u00e7er\u00e7eve<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#Icindekiler\" >\u0130\u00e7indekiler<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#1_Olaylarin_yasanmadigini_inkar_etme\" >1. Olaylar\u0131n ya\u015fanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 inkar etme<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#Saglikli_sinir_nasil_kurulabilir\" >Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131r nas\u0131l kurulabilir<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#2_Duygulari_kucumseme_ve_abartili_bulma\" >2. Duygular\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseme ve abart\u0131l\u0131 bulma<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#Duygunuzu_sahiplenen_bir_dil_kullanmak\" >Duygunuzu sahiplenen bir dil kullanmak<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#3_Hafizayi_ve_algiyi_sorgulatma\" >3. Haf\u0131zay\u0131 ve alg\u0131y\u0131 sorgulatma<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#Arastirmalarin_gosterdigi_oruntu\" >Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131n g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi \u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#Kendi_kaydinizi_korumanin_yollari\" >Kendi kayd\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 koruman\u0131n yollar\u0131<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#4_Sucu_karsi_tarafa_yukleme\" >4. Su\u00e7u kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa y\u00fckleme<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#Konuyu_yeniden_olaya_dondurmek\" >Konuyu yeniden olaya d\u00f6nd\u00fcrmek<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#5_Sosyal_cevreden_izole_etme\" >5. Sosyal \u00e7evreden izole etme<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#Baglarinizi_korumanin_pratik_yollari\" >Ba\u011flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 koruman\u0131n pratik yollar\u0131<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#6_Sahte_endise_ile_kontrol_kurma\" >6. Sahte endi\u015fe ile kontrol kurma<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#Iyi_niyet_ile_kontrolu_ayiran_cizgi\" >\u0130yi niyet ile kontrol\u00fc ay\u0131ran \u00e7izgi<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-16\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#7_Esyalari_yerinden_oynatma_ve_bunu_inkar_etme\" >7. E\u015fyalar\u0131 yerinden oynatma ve bunu ink\u00e2r etme<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-17\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#Somut_kayit_olusturmak\" >Somut kay\u0131t olu\u015fturmak<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-18\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#8_Gercegi_carpitma_ve_tekrar_yoluyla_yaniltma\" >8. Ger\u00e7e\u011fi \u00e7arp\u0131tma ve tekrar yoluyla yan\u0131ltma<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-19\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#Genellemeleri_somutlastirmak\" >Genellemeleri somutla\u015ft\u0131rmak<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-20\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#Gaslighting_davranislarinin_belirtileri_ve_hedef_alanlari\" >Gaslighting davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n belirtileri ve hedef alanlar\u0131<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-21\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#Sinirlarinizi_netlestirin_destek_almaktan_cekinmeyin\" >S\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 netle\u015ftirin, destek almaktan \u00e7ekinmeyin<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-22\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#Oruntuyu_olculebilir_sekilde_izlemek\" >\u00d6r\u00fcnt\u00fcy\u00fc \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclebilir \u015fekilde izlemek<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-23\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/gaslighting-ornekleri\/#Uzmana_anlatirken_kullanabileceginiz_basit_kayit\" >Uzmana anlat\u0131rken kullanabilece\u011finiz basit kay\u0131t<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Gaslighting_orneklerini_okurken_aklinizda_tutabileceginiz_cerceve\"><\/span>Gaslighting \u00f6rneklerini okurken akl\u0131n\u0131zda tutabilece\u011finiz \u00e7er\u00e7eve<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>T\u00fcrkiye&#039;de gaslighting i\u00e7in do\u011frudan ulusal yayg\u0131nl\u0131k oran\u0131 hen\u00fcz yeterince \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f de\u011fildir. Ancak <a href=\"https:\/\/www.aile.gov.tr\/media\/82082\/kadina-yonelik-siddetle-mucadele-iv-ulusal-eylem-plani-2021-2025.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Aile ve Sosyal Hizmetler Bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n Kad\u0131na Y\u00f6nelik \u015eiddetle M\u00fccadele IV. Ulusal Eylem Plan\u0131nda aktar\u0131lan 2014 ara\u015ft\u0131rmas\u0131na<\/a> g\u00f6re T\u00fcrkiye&#039;de kad\u0131nlar\u0131n <strong>%44&#039;\u00fc<\/strong> ya\u015famlar\u0131n\u0131n herhangi bir d\u00f6neminde <strong>psikolojik ve duygusal \u015fiddete<\/strong> maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildirmi\u015ftir, son 12 ay i\u00e7in oran <strong>%26&#039;d\u0131r<\/strong>. Bu veri gaslighting oran\u0131n\u0131n kendisi de\u011fildir. Yaln\u0131zca, gaslightingin yer ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 psikolojik \u015fiddet ba\u011flam\u0131n\u0131n ne kadar geni\u015f oldu\u011funu g\u00f6sterir ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 erken fark etmenin neden \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131klar.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Icindekiler\"><\/span>\u0130\u00e7indekiler<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"#gaslighting-orneklerini-okurken-aklnzda-tutabileceginiz-cerceve\">Gaslighting \u00f6rneklerini okurken akl\u0131n\u0131zda tutabilece\u011finiz \u00e7er\u00e7eve<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#1-olaylarn-yasanmadgn-inkar-etme\">1. Olaylar\u0131n ya\u015fanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 inkar etme<\/a><ul>\n<li><a href=\"#saglkl-snr-nasl-kurulabilir\">Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131r nas\u0131l kurulabilir<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#2-duygular-kucumseme-ve-abartl-bulma\">2. Duygular\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseme ve abart\u0131l\u0131 bulma<\/a><ul>\n<li><a href=\"#duygunuzu-sahiplenen-bir-dil-kullanmak\">Duygunuzu sahiplenen bir dil kullanmak<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#3-hafzay-ve-algy-sorgulatma\">3. Haf\u0131zay\u0131 ve alg\u0131y\u0131 sorgulatma<\/a><ul>\n<li><a href=\"#arastrmalarn-gosterdigi-oruntu\">Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131n g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi \u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#kendi-kaydnz-korumann-yollar\">Kendi kayd\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 koruman\u0131n yollar\u0131<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#4-sucu-kars-tarafa-yukleme\">4. Su\u00e7u kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa y\u00fckleme<\/a><ul>\n<li><a href=\"#konuyu-yeniden-olaya-dondurmek\">Konuyu yeniden olaya d\u00f6nd\u00fcrmek<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#5-sosyal-cevreden-izole-etme\">5. Sosyal \u00e7evreden izole etme<\/a><ul>\n<li><a href=\"#baglarnz-korumann-pratik-yollar\">Ba\u011flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 koruman\u0131n pratik yollar\u0131<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#6-sahte-endise-ile-kontrol-kurma\">6. Sahte endi\u015fe ile kontrol kurma<\/a><ul>\n<li><a href=\"#iyi-niyet-ile-kontrolu-ayran-cizgi\">\u0130yi niyet ile kontrol\u00fc ay\u0131ran \u00e7izgi<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#7-esyalar-yerinden-oynatma-ve-bunu-inkar-etme\">7. E\u015fyalar\u0131 yerinden oynatma ve bunu ink\u00e2r etme<\/a><ul>\n<li><a href=\"#somut-kayt-olusturmak\">Somut kay\u0131t olu\u015fturmak<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#8-gercegi-carptma-ve-tekrar-yoluyla-yanltma\">8. Ger\u00e7e\u011fi \u00e7arp\u0131tma ve tekrar yoluyla yan\u0131ltma<\/a><ul>\n<li><a href=\"#genellemeleri-somutlastrmak\">Genellemeleri somutla\u015ft\u0131rmak<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#gaslighting-davranslarnn-belirtileri-ve-hedef-alanlar\">Gaslighting davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n belirtileri ve hedef alanlar\u0131<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#snrlarnz-netlestirin-destek-almaktan-cekinmeyin\">S\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 netle\u015ftirin, destek almaktan \u00e7ekinmeyin<\/a><ul>\n<li><a href=\"#oruntuyu-olculebilir-sekilde-izlemek\">\u00d6r\u00fcnt\u00fcy\u00fc \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclebilir \u015fekilde izlemek<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#uzmana-anlatrken-kullanabileceginiz-basit-kayt\">Uzmana anlat\u0131rken kullanabilece\u011finiz basit kay\u0131t<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a id=\"1-olaylarn-yasanmadgn-inkar-etme\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Olaylarin_yasanmadigini_inkar_etme\"><\/span>1. Olaylar\u0131n ya\u015fanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 inkar etme<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Partneriniz, d\u00fcn mesajda a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 c\u00fcmleyi bug\u00fcn hi\u00e7 yazmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Mesaj\u0131 g\u00f6sterdi\u011finizde bu kez ba\u011flam\u0131 farkl\u0131 anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, as\u0131l anlatmak istedi\u011finin bamba\u015fka oldu\u011funu iddia ediyor. K\u0131sa s\u00fcre sonra ekran \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fczde olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen <strong>kendi okuman\u0131zdan \u015f\u00fcphe etmeye<\/strong> ba\u015fl\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Benzer bir tablo i\u015f yerinde de g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir. Y\u00f6neticiniz toplant\u0131da verdi\u011fi talimat\u0131 sonradan hi\u00e7 vermemi\u015f gibi davran\u0131r ve sizden tamamen farkl\u0131 bir i\u015f bekler. Her iki durumda da hedef, olay\u0131n kendisinden \u00e7ok <strong>deneyiminize duydu\u011funuz g\u00fcvendir<\/strong>. Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 ger\u00e7eklik s\u00fcrekli tart\u0131\u015fmaya a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00fc\u00e7 dengesi, son s\u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6yleyen tarafa kayar.<\/p>\n<p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/11\/examples-of-gaslighting-relationship-conflict.jpg\" alt=\"\u0130li\u015fkide ileti\u015fim kopuklu\u011fu ya\u015fayan ve birbirini anlamakta zorlanan mutsuz bir kad\u0131n ile elinde not ka\u011f\u0131d\u0131 tutan adam.\" \/><\/figure><\/p>\n<p><a id=\"saglkl-snr-nasl-kurulabilir\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Saglikli_sinir_nasil_kurulabilir\"><\/span>Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131r nas\u0131l kurulabilir<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u0130nkar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda kan\u0131t yar\u0131\u015f\u0131na girmek her zaman i\u015fe yaramaz. Daha koruyucu olan, tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 kazanmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yerine <strong>kendi kayd\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 olu\u015fturmak<\/strong> ve s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 k\u0131sa, sakin c\u00fcmlelerle korumakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>\u00d6nemli konu\u015fmalar\u0131 not edin:<\/strong> Tarih, s\u00f6ylenen s\u00f6z ve al\u0131nan karar\u0131 birka\u00e7 sat\u0131rla yaz\u0131n, s\u00f6zl\u00fc anla\u015fmalar\u0131 mesajla teyit edin.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Net bir c\u00fcmle kullan\u0131n:<\/strong> &quot;Bu konuda haf\u0131zam\u0131z farkl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor, ben kendi notuma g\u00fcveniyorum&quot; gibi sakin bir ifade, tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 ki\u015fisel savunmaya \u00e7evirmez.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Israr\u0131 fark edin:<\/strong> \u0130nkar tekrar ediyor ve her seferinde kendinizden \u015f\u00fcphe ediyorsan\u0131z durumu bir uzmanla konu\u015fmak, \u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcy\u00fc d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan g\u00f6rmenizi kolayla\u015ft\u0131rabilir.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Her unutma ya da yanl\u0131\u015f hat\u0131rlama gaslighting de\u011fildir. Aradaki fark, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n s\u00fcreklili\u011fi ve sonunda sizin s\u00fcrekli kendinizi sorgulaman\u0131zd\u0131r. Senaryoda oldu\u011fu gibi yaz\u0131l\u0131 kan\u0131t varken bile alg\u0131n\u0131z ge\u00e7ersiz k\u0131l\u0131n\u0131yorsa, durup \u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcye bakmak hakl\u0131 bir ad\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"2-duygular-kucumseme-ve-abartl-bulma\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Duygulari_kucumseme_ve_abartili_bulma\"><\/span>2. Duygular\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseme ve abart\u0131l\u0131 bulma<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>K\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sakin bir dille s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsunuz. Yan\u0131t, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z olaya dair bir a\u00e7\u0131klama de\u011fil, duygunuza dair bir yarg\u0131 oluyor. <strong>&quot;Sen her \u015feyi ki\u015fisel al\u0131yorsun&quot;<\/strong>, <strong>&quot;\u00c7ok hassass\u0131n&quot;<\/strong> ya da &quot;Bunda \u00fcz\u00fclecek bir \u015fey yok&quot; c\u00fcmleleriyle konu h\u0131zla kapan\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Bu gaslighting \u00f6rneklerinde hedef alan, <strong>duygusal ge\u00e7erliliktir<\/strong>. Duygunuz abart\u0131l\u0131 ya da mant\u0131ks\u0131z g\u00f6sterildi\u011finde, bir s\u00fcre sonra hissetmeden \u00f6nce kendinizi denetlemeye ba\u015flars\u0131n\u0131z. Kayg\u0131l\u0131 bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa korkacak bir \u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, her \u015feyi uydurdu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemek de benzer bir etki yarat\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk duygusunu de\u011fil, duygusunu g\u00f6steren kendisini sorun olarak g\u00f6rmeyi \u00f6\u011frenir.<\/p>\n<p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/11\/examples-of-gaslighting-pensive-girl.jpg\" alt=\"Kalbiyle oturan, etraf\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce balonlar\u0131 bulunan h\u00fcz\u00fcnl\u00fc ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceli gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131n siyah beyaz \u00e7izim g\u00f6rseli.\" \/><\/figure><\/p>\n<p><a id=\"duygunuzu-sahiplenen-bir-dil-kullanmak\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Duygunuzu_sahiplenen_bir_dil_kullanmak\"><\/span>Duygunuzu sahiplenen bir dil kullanmak<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Duygu, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin onay\u0131yla var olmaz. Bu nedenle s\u0131n\u0131r, duygunun hakl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ispat etmekten \u00e7ok onu <strong>kendi c\u00fcmlenizle ifade etmekten<\/strong> ge\u00e7er. &quot;Bunu \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc buluyorum&quot; ya da &quot;Bu s\u00f6z beni k\u0131rd\u0131&quot; demek, su\u00e7lama yapmadan deneyiminizi ortaya koyar.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Duygunuzun ger\u00e7ek olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin ayn\u0131 duyguyu hissetmesi gerekmez.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Duygusal tepkileriniz s\u00fcrekli k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseniyorsa, bu durum yaln\u0131zca ileti\u015fim sorunu olmayabilir. Konunun daha geni\u015f \u00e7er\u00e7evesini anlamak i\u00e7in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/duygusal-psikolojik-siddet-nedir-nasil-basa-cikilir\/\">duygusal ve psikolojik \u015fiddetle ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kma yollar\u0131<\/a> \u00fczerine okumak, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 isimlendirmenize destek olabilir. Kendinizi ifade etmekten giderek \u00e7ekiniyor, konu\u015fmadan \u00f6nce defalarca prova yap\u0131yorsan\u0131z bu \u00e7ekinmenin kendisi de \u00f6nemli bir i\u015farettir. Bir uzmana ya da g\u00fcvendi\u011finiz birine a\u00e7\u0131lmak, i\u00e7 sesinizle yeniden temas kurman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"3-hafzay-ve-algy-sorgulatma\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Hafizayi_ve_algiyi_sorgulatma\"><\/span>3. Haf\u0131zay\u0131 ve alg\u0131y\u0131 sorgulatma<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Bir bulu\u015fma i\u00e7in cumartesi kararla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan eminsiniz. Partneriniz \u0131srarla pazar dedi\u011fini, sizin yine kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. \u00d6nce takvimi kontrol ediyorsunuz, sonra mesajlar\u0131 tar\u0131yorsunuz, sonunda <strong>&quot;Galiba ben yanl\u0131\u015f hat\u0131rlad\u0131m&quot;<\/strong> diyerek kendi kayd\u0131n\u0131zdan bile vazge\u00e7iyorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Haf\u0131zay\u0131 hedef alan davran\u0131\u015f, gaslighting \u00f6rnekleri aras\u0131nda <strong>bili\u015fsel g\u00fcveni<\/strong> en do\u011frudan zedeleyenlerden biridir. Ailede ya\u015fanan bir olay herkesin \u00f6n\u00fcnde sizin an\u0131n\u0131zdan farkl\u0131 anlat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da benzer bir kafa kar\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 olu\u015fur. Zamanla her ayr\u0131nt\u0131y\u0131 not alma, s\u00fcrekli ba\u015fkas\u0131na dan\u0131\u015fma ve zihinsel sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan \u015f\u00fcphe etme e\u011filimi artabilir.<\/p>\n<p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/11\/examples-of-gaslighting-identity-crisis.jpg\" alt=\"K\u0131r\u0131k aynaya bakan ve zihinsel karma\u015fa ya\u015fayan gen\u00e7 bir kad\u0131n ill\u00fcstrasyonu, psikolojik manip\u00fclasyon ve gaslighting kavramlar\u0131n\u0131 temsil ediyor.\" \/><\/figure><\/p>\n<p><a id=\"arastrmalarn-gosterdigi-oruntu\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Arastirmalarin_gosterdigi_oruntu\"><\/span>Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131n g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi \u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u0130stanbul Bilgi \u00dcniversitesinde 2025&#039;te y\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fclen nitel ara\u015ft\u0131rmada, ge\u00e7mi\u015f ili\u015fkilerinde gaslighting ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildiren <strong>20-28 ya\u015f aras\u0131ndaki 10 kad\u0131nla<\/strong> yar\u0131 yap\u0131land\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeler yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131n ortak anlat\u0131lar\u0131 aras\u0131nda <strong>kendinden \u015f\u00fcphe etme<\/strong>, kendi ger\u00e7eklik alg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n zay\u0131flamas\u0131 ve \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc ki\u015filerden g\u00fcvence arama yer alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00d6rneklem k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in bu bulgular T\u00fcrkiye geneline oran vermez, ancak s\u00fcrecin \u00e7o\u011fu zaman k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ink\u00e2rlarla ba\u015flay\u0131p kademeli bi\u00e7imde yo\u011funla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6sterir.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"kendi-kaydnz-korumann-yollar\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Kendi_kaydinizi_korumanin_yollari\"><\/span>Kendi kayd\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 koruman\u0131n yollar\u0131<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u00d6nemli olaylar\u0131 tarih s\u0131ras\u0131yla yazmak, haf\u0131zan\u0131z\u0131n yerine ge\u00e7mez, ona destek olur. G\u00fcvendi\u011finiz bir ki\u015fiye olay\u0131 anlatmak da alg\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tek bir ki\u015finin yorumuna b\u0131rakmaman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar. Bu noktada s\u0131radan unutkanl\u0131k ile ili\u015fki i\u00e7indeki s\u00fcrekli sorgulatmay\u0131 ay\u0131rmak \u00f6nemlidir ve <a href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/unutkanlik-mi-hafiza-kaybi-mi\/\">unutkanl\u0131k ile haf\u0131za kayb\u0131 aras\u0131ndaki farklar<\/a> bu ayr\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir. Kafa kar\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrekli hale geliyorsa bir ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 uzman\u0131na dan\u0131\u015fmak, hem haf\u0131za kayg\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 hem ili\u015fki \u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc birlikte de\u011ferlendirmenizi sa\u011flar.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"4-sucu-kars-tarafa-yukleme\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Sucu_karsi_tarafa_yukleme\"><\/span>4. Su\u00e7u kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa y\u00fckleme<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Partneriniz bulu\u015fmaya ge\u00e7 kal\u0131yor ve siz beklemekten yoruldu\u011funuzu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsunuz. Konu\u015fma bir anda tersine d\u00f6n\u00fcyor ve &quot;Beni b\u00f6yle s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmasayd\u0131n ge\u00e7 kalmazd\u0131m&quot; c\u00fcmlesiyle bekleyen siz, su\u00e7lanan da siz oluyorsunuz. \u00d6z\u00fcr beklerken kendinizi savunur halde buluyorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Bu davran\u0131\u015fta hedef alan, <strong>sorumluluk duygusudur<\/strong>. Kendi hatas\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmek yerine su\u00e7u kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa aktaran ki\u015fi, hem olay\u0131n hem de sizin tepkinizin sorgulanmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flar. &quot;Sen beni bu hale getirdin&quot; ya da &quot;\u00d6yle davranmasayd\u0131n bunu yapmazd\u0131m&quot; gibi c\u00fcmleler bu aktar\u0131m\u0131n tipik dilidir.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"konuyu-yeniden-olaya-dondurmek\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Konuyu_yeniden_olaya_dondurmek\"><\/span>Konuyu yeniden olaya d\u00f6nd\u00fcrmek<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u0130\u015f yerinde de benzeri ya\u015fanabilir. Bir y\u00f6netici, kendi onaylad\u0131\u011f\u0131 hatay\u0131 bildiren \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131 sorunun kayna\u011f\u0131 olarak g\u00f6sterebilir. B\u00f6yle anlarda su\u00e7lamaya ayn\u0131 h\u0131zla kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k vermek, konuyu daha da da\u011f\u0131t\u0131r.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>S\u0131ray\u0131 yaz\u0131n:<\/strong> Kim, neyi, ne zaman yapt\u0131 sorusunu k\u0131saca not almak olay \u00f6rg\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc netle\u015ftirir.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Tek c\u00fcmleye d\u00f6n\u00fcn:<\/strong> &quot;Ben ge\u00e7 kal\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in bekledi\u011fimden s\u00f6z ediyorum&quot; gibi bir ifade, tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 karakter tart\u0131\u015fmas\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Payla\u015f\u0131n:<\/strong> S\u00fcrekli su\u00e7lanma hissi ya\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z durumu g\u00fcvenilir biriyle konu\u015fmak, y\u00fck\u00fc tek ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131man\u0131z\u0131 engeller.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ili\u015fkide ki\u015fi hatas\u0131n\u0131 kabul eder, etkisini anlar ve telafi yolunu konu\u015fur. Her tart\u0131\u015fman\u0131n sonunda hatal\u0131 taraf\u0131n hep siz \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131, ileti\u015fimin de\u011fil <strong>sorumlulu\u011fun y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fcn<\/strong> sorun oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcrebilir. Kendi pay\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rmek de\u011ferlidir, ancak ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n gerek\u00e7esi haline gelmek bunun \u00f6tesindedir.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"5-sosyal-cevreden-izole-etme\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Sosyal_cevreden_izole_etme\"><\/span>5. Sosyal \u00e7evreden izole etme<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek istedi\u011finizde partneriniz, onlar\u0131n sizi k\u00f6t\u00fc etkiledi\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Ailenizi arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda surat as\u0131yor, zamanla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeleriniz azal\u0131yor. Bir s\u00fcre sonra ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlatabilece\u011finiz ki\u015fi say\u0131s\u0131 azald\u0131k\u00e7a, ger\u00e7ekli\u011fi yaln\u0131zca partnerinizin yorumuyla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r hale geliyorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Burada hedef alan, <strong>d\u0131\u015f destek ve do\u011frulama kaynaklar\u0131d\u0131r<\/strong>. &quot;Herkes seni deli san\u0131yor&quot; ya da &quot;Arkada\u015flar\u0131n seni hi\u00e7 sevmiyor&quot; gibi c\u00fcmleler, \u00e7evrenizle aran\u0131za \u015f\u00fcphe yerle\u015ftirir. Aile i\u00e7inde &quot;Kimseye anlatma, kimse anlamaz&quot; s\u00f6z\u00fc de benzer bi\u00e7imde ki\u015fiyi yaln\u0131zla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r ve yard\u0131m istemesini zorla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"baglarnz-korumann-pratik-yollar\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Baglarinizi_korumanin_pratik_yollari\"><\/span>Ba\u011flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 koruman\u0131n pratik yollar\u0131<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u0130zolasyon \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yasakla de\u011fil, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck yorumlarla ilerler. Bu y\u00fczden s\u0131n\u0131r, b\u00fcy\u00fck bir kavga \u00e7\u0131karmadan <strong>d\u00fczenli temas\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmekten<\/strong> ge\u00e7ebilir. G\u00fcvendi\u011finiz en az bir ki\u015fiyle belirli aral\u0131klarla konu\u015fmak, olaylar\u0131 kendi c\u00fcmlelerinizle anlatma alan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 korur.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>Koruyucu al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k:<\/strong> Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir olay\u0131, kimsenin yorumuna b\u0131rakmadan \u00f6nce kendi kelimelerinizle yaz\u0131n, sonra g\u00fcvendi\u011finiz biriyle payla\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Yak\u0131n \u00e7evrenizin g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri elbette her zaman tek do\u011fru de\u011fildir. Yine de bu g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri kendi i\u00e7 sesinizle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rmak, tek kayna\u011fa ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 kalman\u0131z\u0131 engeller. Sosyal ba\u011flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n belirgin bi\u00e7imde zay\u0131flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, yard\u0131m istemekten \u00e7ekindi\u011finizi ya da kendinizi giderek yaln\u0131z hissetti\u011finizi fark ederseniz profesyonel destek almay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek \u00f6nemlidir. Destek istemek g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fczl\u00fck de\u011fil, \u00e7evrenizle ba\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yeniden kurman\u0131n bir yoludur.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"6-sahte-endise-ile-kontrol-kurma\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Sahte_endise_ile_kontrol_kurma\"><\/span>6. Sahte endi\u015fe ile kontrol kurma<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Yeni bir i\u015fe ba\u015fvurmak istedi\u011finizi s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsunuz. Aile \u00fcyeniz size destek vermek yerine, zor bir d\u00f6nemde oldu\u011funuzu ve bunu kald\u0131ramayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. S\u00f6zler <strong>&quot;Senin iyili\u011fin i\u00e7in s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum&quot;<\/strong> diye ba\u015fl\u0131yor, ancak konu\u015fman\u0131n sonunda ba\u015fvurudan vazge\u00e7en siz oluyorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Bu gaslighting \u00f6rneklerinde kontrol, a\u00e7\u0131k bask\u0131 yerine \u015fefkat diliyle kurulur. &quot;Sen zor bir d\u00f6nemdesin, bu y\u00fczden yanl\u0131\u015f hat\u0131rl\u0131yorsun&quot; gibi ifadeler, duygusal tepkinizi hasta ya da g\u00fcvenilmez bir duruma indirger. Hedef alan <strong>\u00f6zerklik ve karar verme g\u00fcvenidir<\/strong>. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan ilgili g\u00f6r\u00fcnen tutum, kararlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yava\u015f\u00e7a ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n onay\u0131na ba\u011flayabilir.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"iyi-niyet-ile-kontrolu-ayran-cizgi\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Iyi_niyet_ile_kontrolu_ayiran_cizgi\"><\/span>\u0130yi niyet ile kontrol\u00fc ay\u0131ran \u00e7izgi<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Ger\u00e7ek destek, kayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131r ama son karar\u0131 size b\u0131rak\u0131r. Kontrol ise kayg\u0131y\u0131 gerek\u00e7e g\u00f6stererek se\u00e7iminizi y\u00f6netir. Bu ayr\u0131m\u0131 yaparken yard\u0131m teklifini kabul etmeden \u00f6nce kendi g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc tek ba\u015f\u0131na netle\u015ftirmek yararl\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>\u00d6nce kendi listenizi yaz\u0131n:<\/strong> \u0130stedi\u011finiz \u015feyin nedenlerini ve risklerini kimseyle konu\u015fmadan \u00f6nce not edin.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Farkl\u0131 sesler dinleyin:<\/strong> Kararlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 destekleyen ve ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tan\u0131yan ki\u015filerle konu\u015fmak denge sa\u011flar.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Tekrar\u0131 izleyin:<\/strong> &quot;Senin iyili\u011fin i\u00e7in&quot; s\u00f6z\u00fc her \u00f6nemli karar\u0131n\u0131zda \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fcze \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorsa uzman deste\u011fi almak \u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcy\u00fc g\u00f6rmenize yard\u0131m eder.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Endi\u015fe ifadesi tek ba\u015f\u0131na sorun de\u011fildir. Sorun, endi\u015fenin s\u00fcrekli sizin yetersiz oldu\u011funuz sonucuna varmas\u0131 ve \u00f6zerkli\u011finizin daralmas\u0131d\u0131r. Kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorabilirsiniz, bu s\u00f6zden sonra kendimi daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc m\u00fc, daha ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 m\u0131 hissediyorum.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"7-esyalar-yerinden-oynatma-ve-bunu-inkar-etme\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_Esyalari_yerinden_oynatma_ve_bunu_inkar_etme\"><\/span>7. E\u015fyalar\u0131 yerinden oynatma ve bunu ink\u00e2r etme<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Anahtar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 her ak\u015fam ayn\u0131 \u00e7ekmeceye koyuyorsunuz. Sabah anahtar ba\u015fka bir yerde \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor ve partneriniz, yine yanl\u0131\u015f yere koydu\u011funuzu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Telefonunuz, c\u00fczdan\u0131n\u0131z ya da \u00f6nemli bir belgeniz i\u00e7in benzer durumlar tekrarland\u0131k\u00e7a dikkatinizden \u015f\u00fcphe etmeye ba\u015fl\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Bu, gaslighting \u00f6rnekleri i\u00e7inde <strong>en somut bi\u00e7imlerden biridir<\/strong>. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6r\u00fcnen olaylar tekrar etti\u011finde hedef al\u0131nan alan, g\u00fcnl\u00fck dikkatinize ve haf\u0131zan\u0131za duydu\u011funuz g\u00fcvendir. Ortak ya\u015fam alan\u0131nda bir e\u015fyan\u0131n kas\u0131tl\u0131 olarak kald\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 ve ki\u015finin unutmu\u015f gibi hissettirilmesi, zihinsel karma\u015fay\u0131 s\u0131radan bir dalg\u0131nl\u0131ktan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p s\u00fcrekli \u00f6z \u015f\u00fcpheye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrebilir.<\/p>\n<p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/11\/examples-of-gaslighting-hiding-keys.jpg\" alt=\"Anahtarlar\u0131n\u0131 saklayan bir erkek ve durumu anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan \u015fa\u015fk\u0131n bir kad\u0131n ill\u00fcstrasyonu.\" \/><\/figure><\/p>\n<p><a id=\"somut-kayt-olusturmak\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Somut_kayit_olusturmak\"><\/span>Somut kay\u0131t olu\u015fturmak<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Elbette herkes e\u015fyas\u0131n\u0131 bazen kaybedebilir. Buradaki ay\u0131rt edici nokta, kay\u0131plar\u0131n hep ayn\u0131 ki\u015fiyle ya\u015fanan tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n ard\u0131ndan gelmesi ve her seferinde su\u00e7lanan taraf\u0131n siz olmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6nemli e\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in sabit bir yer belirlemek ve o yeri foto\u011fraflamak basit bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7t\u0131r. Tekrarlayan kay\u0131plarda tarihi not etmek, olaylar\u0131 tek tek de\u011fil bir dizi olarak g\u00f6rmenizi sa\u011flar. Kendinize &quot;Bu durum bende nas\u0131l bir his b\u0131rak\u0131yor&quot; sorusunu sorman\u0131z da \u00f6nemlidir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc s\u00fcrekli kendinizden \u015f\u00fcphe etme hissi, e\u015fyan\u0131n yerinden daha anlaml\u0131 bir g\u00f6stergedir. Bu \u015f\u00fcphe g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 etkiliyorsa konuyu bir uzmanla de\u011ferlendirmek, hem kendinize g\u00fcveninizi hem ili\u015fkinizdeki \u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcy\u00fc sakin bir \u00e7er\u00e7evede ele alman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"8-gercegi-carptma-ve-tekrar-yoluyla-yanltma\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"8_Gercegi_carpitma_ve_tekrar_yoluyla_yaniltma\"><\/span>8. Ger\u00e7e\u011fi \u00e7arp\u0131tma ve tekrar yoluyla yan\u0131ltma<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Size k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi\u011finizde partneriniz, bunun her zaman b\u00f6yle oldu\u011funu ve sizin fark etmedi\u011finizi s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Ayn\u0131 c\u00fcmle aylar boyunca tekrarlan\u0131yor ve bir s\u00fcre sonra kendi g\u00f6zleminiz yerine bu anlat\u0131y\u0131 normal kabul etmeye ba\u015fl\u0131yorsunuz. <strong>&quot;Herkes bunu biliyor&quot;<\/strong> s\u00f6z\u00fc, kan\u0131t sunmadan uzla\u015fma varm\u0131\u015f hissi yarat\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Tekrar yoluyla yan\u0131ltmada hedef alan, <strong>ger\u00e7eklik duygusu ve normal alg\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r<\/strong>. Bir ekip liderinin yanl\u0131\u015f bir s\u00fcreci herkesin kabul etti\u011fi standart olarak sunmas\u0131 da ayn\u0131 i\u015fleyi\u015fe sahiptir. S\u0131k tekrarlanan ifade tan\u0131d\u0131k gelir, tan\u0131d\u0131kl\u0131k da zamanla do\u011fruluk hissi yaratabilir.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"genellemeleri-somutlastrmak\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Genellemeleri_somutlastirmak\"><\/span>Genellemeleri somutla\u015ft\u0131rmak<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Bu davran\u0131\u015fa kar\u015f\u0131 en sade s\u0131n\u0131r, genel c\u00fcmleyi somut olaya \u00e7ekmektir. &quot;Somut olarak hangi durumdan bahsediyorsun&quot; sorusu, herkes ve her zaman gibi ifadelerin arkas\u0131ndaki bo\u015flu\u011fu g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr k\u0131lar.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\u00d6nce tarihi, olay\u0131 ve kendi c\u00fcmlenizi yaz\u0131n. Tekrarlanan anlat\u0131, yaz\u0131l\u0131 kay\u0131t kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc kaybeder.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Kendi g\u00f6zlemlerinizi k\u0131sa notlarla tutmak, yanl\u0131\u015f anlat\u0131ya kar\u015f\u0131 ki\u015fisel ar\u015fiviniz olur. S\u00fcrekli yanl\u0131\u015f bilgilendirme ya\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z g\u00fcvenilir bir kaynaktan ya da uzmandan bilgi almak da \u00f6nemlidir. \u0130li\u015fki i\u00e7indeki bu ve benzeri y\u00f6nlendirme bi\u00e7imlerini birlikte anlamak i\u00e7in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/iliskilerde-manipulasyon-nedir-nasil-anlasilir-kendinizi-nasil-koruyabilirsiniz\/\">ili\u015fkilerde manip\u00fclasyonun nas\u0131l anla\u015f\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 ve kendinizi nas\u0131l koruyabilece\u011finiz<\/a> \u00fczerine haz\u0131rlanm\u0131\u015f i\u00e7erik size ek bir \u00e7er\u00e7eve sunabilir. Unutmay\u0131n, bir ifadenin \u00e7ok duyulmas\u0131 onu do\u011fru yapmaz. Kendi deneyiminiz de kayda de\u011fer bir bilgidir.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"gaslighting-davranslarnn-belirtileri-ve-hedef-alanlar\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Gaslighting_davranislarinin_belirtileri_ve_hedef_alanlari\"><\/span>Gaslighting davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n belirtileri ve hedef alanlar\u0131<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tr>\n<th>Davran\u0131\u015f<\/th>\n<th>Tipik ifade<\/th>\n<th>Hedeflenen alan<\/th>\n<th>Temel \u00f6nlem<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Olaylar\u0131n ya\u015fanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ink\u00e2r etme<\/td>\n<td>\u201cBen b\u00f6yle bir \u015fey hi\u00e7 s\u00f6ylemedim.\u201d<\/td>\n<td>Deneyime ve anlat\u0131ya g\u00fcven<\/td>\n<td>\u00d6nemli konu\u015fmalar\u0131 not edin; sakin ve net konu\u015fun.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Duygular\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseme ve abart\u0131l\u0131 bulma<\/td>\n<td>\u201c\u00c7ok hassass\u0131n.\u201d<\/td>\n<td>Duygulara ve i\u00e7 sese g\u00fcven<\/td>\n<td>Duygunuzu kendi c\u00fcmlelerinizle ifade edin; gerekirse destek al\u0131n.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Haf\u0131zay\u0131 ve alg\u0131y\u0131 sorgulatma<\/td>\n<td>\u201cYanl\u0131\u015f hat\u0131rl\u0131yorsun.\u201d<\/td>\n<td>Belle\u011fe ve alg\u0131ya g\u00fcven<\/td>\n<td>\u00d6nemli olaylar\u0131 kaydedin; g\u00fcvendi\u011finiz birine dan\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Su\u00e7u kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa y\u00fckleme<\/td>\n<td>\u201cSen beni bu hale getirdin.\u201d<\/td>\n<td>Sorumluluk ve olaylar\u0131 de\u011ferlendirme<\/td>\n<td>Olaylar\u0131n s\u0131ras\u0131n\u0131 not edin ve konu\u015fmay\u0131 as\u0131l konuya d\u00f6nd\u00fcr\u00fcn.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Sosyal \u00e7evreden izole etme<\/td>\n<td>\u201cArkada\u015flar\u0131n seni hi\u00e7 sevmiyor.\u201d<\/td>\n<td>Sosyal destek ve d\u0131\u015f ba\u011flant\u0131lar<\/td>\n<td>G\u00fcvendi\u011finiz ki\u015filerle d\u00fczenli ileti\u015fimi s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcn.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Sahte endi\u015fe ile kontrol kurma<\/td>\n<td>\u201cSenin iyili\u011fin i\u00e7in s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum.\u201d<\/td>\n<td>\u00d6zerklik ve karar verme<\/td>\n<td>Kendi g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc netle\u015ftirin; ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 destekleyen ki\u015filerle konu\u015fun.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>E\u015fyalar\u0131 yerinden oynatma ve bunu ink\u00e2r etme<\/td>\n<td>\u201cSen kendin koydun.\u201d<\/td>\n<td>Dikkate ve haf\u0131zaya g\u00fcven<\/td>\n<td>\u00d6nemli e\u015fyalar\u0131n yerini not edin veya foto\u011fraflay\u0131n.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Ger\u00e7e\u011fi \u00e7arp\u0131tma ve tekrar yoluyla yan\u0131ltma<\/td>\n<td>\u201cHerkes bunu biliyor.\u201d<\/td>\n<td>Ger\u00e7eklik alg\u0131s\u0131 ve deneyime g\u00fcven<\/td>\n<td>Somut \u00f6rnek isteyin; kendi g\u00f6zlemlerinizi yaz\u0131l\u0131 olarak kaydedin.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/table><\/figure>\n<p><a id=\"snrlarnz-netlestirin-destek-almaktan-cekinmeyin\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Sinirlarinizi_netlestirin_destek_almaktan_cekinmeyin\"><\/span>S\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 netle\u015ftirin, destek almaktan \u00e7ekinmeyin<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Gaslighting \u00f6rneklerinde ortak nokta, ki\u015finin kendi g\u00f6zlemine ve duygusuna g\u00fcveninin zamanla a\u015f\u0131nmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130nkar haf\u0131zay\u0131, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseme duyguyu, izolasyon destek a\u011f\u0131n\u0131, sahte endi\u015fe ise \u00f6zerkli\u011fi hedef al\u0131r. Bu nedenle tek bir olay\u0131 kan\u0131tlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yerine, <strong>tekrar eden \u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcy\u00fc<\/strong> ve sizde b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 etkiyi izlemek daha ayd\u0131nlat\u0131c\u0131 olur. Olay g\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc tutmak, g\u00fcvendi\u011finiz biriyle d\u00fczenli ileti\u015fim kurmak ve &quot;Bunu kabul etmiyorum&quot; gibi net s\u0131n\u0131rlar koymak bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te somut ad\u0131mlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"oruntuyu-olculebilir-sekilde-izlemek\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Oruntuyu_olculebilir_sekilde_izlemek\"><\/span>\u00d6r\u00fcnt\u00fcy\u00fc \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclebilir \u015fekilde izlemek<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>T\u00fcrkiye&#039;de gaslighting ma\u011fduriyetini de\u011ferlendirmek i\u00e7in T\u00fcrk\u00e7eye uyarlanan <strong>14 maddelik<\/strong> Gaslighting Victim Scale, <a href=\"https:\/\/dergipark.org.tr\/tr\/pub\/seader\/article\/1650524\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">2025&#039;te 18 ya\u015f \u00fczeri 477 kad\u0131nla yap\u0131lan \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmada<\/a> ge\u00e7erli ve g\u00fcvenilir bulunmu\u015f, i\u00e7 tutarl\u0131l\u0131k katsay\u0131s\u0131 <strong>.88<\/strong> olarak raporlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. B\u00f6yle ara\u00e7lar tan\u0131 koymaz, ancak ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcye isim vermenize ve uzmanla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrken deneyiminizi daha d\u00fczenli anlatman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir. Acil risk, tehdit veya \u015fiddet durumunda ise kendi kendine de\u011ferlendirme yerine do\u011frudan uygun sa\u011fl\u0131k ve g\u00fcvenlik hizmetlerine ba\u015fvurmak gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>Bu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n ruhsal etkisini anlamak da \u00f6nemlidir. <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC13365534\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">T\u00fcrkiye&#039;de gen\u00e7 yeti\u015fkin \u00f6rnekleminde y\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fclen ara\u015ft\u0131rmada<\/a> gaslighting maruziyeti ile iyi olu\u015f aras\u0131ndaki toplam ili\u015fki <strong>\u03b2 = \u22120,401, t = \u22128,190, p &lt; 0,001<\/strong> ile negatif ve istatistiksel olarak anlaml\u0131 bulunmu\u015ftur. Bu sonu\u00e7 nedensellik ya da tan\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelmez ve \u00e7evrim i\u00e7i kolayda \u00f6rnekleme nedeniyle T\u00fcrkiye n\u00fcfusuna do\u011frudan genellenmez. Yine de de\u011ferlendirmede yaln\u0131zca partner davran\u0131\u015f\u0131na de\u011fil, duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fczenleme kapasitenize, kendinize g\u00fcveninize ve toparlanma kaynaklar\u0131n\u0131za da bak\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini g\u00f6sterir.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"uzmana-anlatrken-kullanabileceginiz-basit-kayt\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Uzmana_anlatirken_kullanabileceginiz_basit_kayit\"><\/span>Uzmana anlat\u0131rken kullanabilece\u011finiz basit kay\u0131t<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u0130lk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeye giderken uzun bir savunma haz\u0131rlaman\u0131za gerek yoktur. Tarih, olay, s\u00f6ylenen c\u00fcmle ve sizde kalan his bi\u00e7iminde tuttu\u011funuz k\u0131sa notlar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yeterlidir. Ayn\u0131 notlar\u0131 belirli aral\u0131klarla g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irmek, kendinizden \u015f\u00fcphenin azal\u0131p azalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 izlemenize de yard\u0131m eder. \u0130li\u015fkideki bu t\u00fcr davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 tek ba\u015f\u0131na de\u011ferlendirmek zor olabilir, bu durumda Healmeup \u00fczerinden lisansl\u0131 uzmanlarla \u00e7evrim i\u00e7i g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme planlayabilirsiniz. Platformda <strong>45 dakikal\u0131k<\/strong> bir g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmenin \u00fccreti <strong>1600 TRY&#039;dir<\/strong> ve ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme \u00f6ncesinde uzmanla uyumu de\u011ferlendirmek i\u00e7in <strong>15 dakikal\u0131k \u00fccretsiz \u00f6n g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme<\/strong> sunulur. Healmeup bir tan\u0131 ya da tedavi hizmeti sunmaz, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeler uzman ile dan\u0131\u015fan aras\u0131nda ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z olarak y\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fcl\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Kendi ger\u00e7ekli\u011finize yeniden g\u00fcvenmek bir anda olmaz. Bug\u00fcn atabilece\u011finiz en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ad\u0131m, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir olay\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi yazmak ve g\u00fcvendi\u011finiz biriyle payla\u015fmakt\u0131r. S\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 netle\u015ftirdik\u00e7e, duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n onay\u0131na b\u0131rakmadan ifade etmek de kolayla\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<hr>\n<p>Gaslighting \u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc bir uzmanla birlikte de\u011ferlendirmek, s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve toparlanma kaynaklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 netle\u015ftirmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir. Healmeup, lisansl\u0131 psikologlar ve psikolojik dan\u0131\u015fmanlarla \u00e7evrim i\u00e7i yaz\u0131l\u0131, sesli veya g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme planlaman\u0131za ve \u00f6nce \u00fccretsiz \u00f6n g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeyle uyumu de\u011ferlendirmenize olanak tan\u0131r. Size uygun uzman\u0131 incelemek ve g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme olu\u015fturmak i\u00e7in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\">Healmeup<\/a> adresini ziyaret edebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"D\u00fcn ak\u015fam ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 sakin bir \u015fekilde hat\u0131rl\u0131yorsunuz. Bug\u00fcn konuyu a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fi, o s\u00f6zleri hi\u00e7 s\u00f6ylemedi\u011fini, olay\u0131&hellip;","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7257,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"csco_display_header_overlay":false,"csco_singular_sidebar":"","csco_page_header_type":"","csco_page_load_nextpost":"","csco_post_video_location":[],"csco_post_video_location_hash":"","csco_post_video_url":"","csco_post_video_bg_start_time":0,"csco_post_video_bg_end_time":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[337,335,334,338,336],"class_list":{"0":"post-7258","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-genel","8":"tag-duygusal-istismar","9":"tag-gaslighting-belirtileri","10":"tag-gaslighting-ornekleri","11":"tag-saglikli-sinirlar","12":"tag-toksik-iliski","13":"cs-entry","14":"cs-video-wrap"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7258","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7258"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7258\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7263,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7258\/revisions\/7263"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7257"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7258"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7258"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healmeup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7258"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}